That's very sweet. Thanks - and the same back atcha! NM
Posted By: HomeAlone on 2009-04-01
In Reply to: Well fellow MTs - NocturnalMT
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((((m))))!! Right back atcha -- and more!
You are and have definitely been my "bud," and I appreciate the compassion you have shown when we discussed this board. At least at that point, I still had my job.
Speaking of "comorbid conditions," I have a bulging disk on my back that causes some problems. It hurts, but I can deal with it. My doc already told me that surgery for it would be out of the question because of my "comorbid conditions." LOL!
I've been approved for the voucher, it's just a matter of how long it will take to get it. Due to the different documents I needed, I wound up 41 on the list (there were only 50 vouchers given and they hopefully will go fast), but I AM approved. If nothing else good happens with the voucher, at least I can be very thankful for the new "bud" I found at the Housing Authority. She's super sweet -- reminds me a lot of you!
And you are absolutely right about my daughter! She feels I'm getting a "free ride," after a decade of being on welfare herself!!!! Yet, she wants me out so bad that she was the one who went down to the Welfare office and got every form they print!
The one thing I KNOW I need is a telephone. Now, I have my daughter's phone to depend on. I obviously expect important messages from these agencies (though we mostly email), my doctors and my lawyer. They have her number, and I actully receive the messages from her about half the time, at most. Sometimes I sit here and fantasize (LOL) through the wireless phones out there. About a month ago, I saw a Cricket refurbished camera phone for only $9.99. Then it rose to $19.00. Today it's $29.00. I'm going to watch it to see if goes back down at some point, because I've seen it do it before. I just received the financial assistance ($200.00 a month which is more than I've been earning at my job), plus food stamps, and I need to go back to the hospital with hopefully the LAST piece of paper I need in order to renew and rerate my CICP (Colorado Indigent Care Program), and I already know that they are planning to rerate me to a "Z" rating, which means I don't pay a penny for physicians and for hospital stays. I AM responsible for all the other auxiliary charges (MRIs, CT scans, etc.) I'm going to be seeing another doctor on a regular basis, in addition to my family doc, and really wondered if I could afford $30.00 a month for this. I have no medication coverage, but the ones I'm on are maybe half Walmart, and the others are through drug manufacturers at no cost. So I'm hoping I can afford a phone soon. I feel there's a safety factor involved if I need to call 911 and my daughter, son-in-law and granddaughter aren't here, plus just so I know I can get my messages.
As far as my daughter, a poster (sorry, don't remember who) on this board wrote the words, "I may love her, but I don't like her." No words could be more appropriate. If there is going to be a relationship, she's going to have to initiate it, and the moment she becomes rude, I will hang up on her. Very important to me, though, is being able to have my little grandsons come and visit and maybe even staying overnight. I'd like to get a sofabed for that purpose. (There are a LOT of "free - you come pick 'em up" places in this town, many times with photos, and I'm hoping to find a sofabed.)
It isn't that my daughter doesn't understand CF and CP, it's that she doesn't care. She hasn't once done any internet research on this -- always too busy. When I found out my mother had colon cancer, I researched that disease anywhere and everywhere I could (no internet yet) because I CARED about what she was going through. I can't maintain open communication with her because she won't let me. If I walk up to her room and she sees me coming, she'll yell out "WHAT?!!!!!!" and I will say, "Nothing. Just wanted to chat a little." "Well, I'm too busy now watching this show." And as far as a "free ride," she only had a job for about two years of her entire life. Her husband works at a pretty high-paying job (he was unemployed when I arrived here), and she literally either lies in bed all day or if/when she's up, she's watching TV and/or texting/talking to all her friends, while smoking her prescription pot and drinking beer, hard liquor -- whatever she's in the mood for.
I just don't know what else to say to you, "m." You're kind, you're compassionate, and you're just THERE for your friends! I feel myself tearing up a little here becuase those things are sometimes hard to find in just one person.
Thank you for the hugs, and thank you for the prayers. I appreciate them all very much!
May God bless you, Marmann, and you can email me if you need a
little extra support.
sweet. don't let the owner take him back; he needs you
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Rude Behind Your Back and Sicky-Sweet to Your Face
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Sweet-chocolate; not sweet-cheese. nm
Adorable! Sweet, sweet, sweet!. thanks.nm.
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What a sweet, sweet face!
I have tears in my eyes. I will see what I can do about getting him a hat from PA. Do you know do they just want ball caps or would a beanie be okay, too?
Sweet or not sweet cornbread?
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Then they can get right back on their tires and rafts and float on back to Cuba! nm
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Back-to-back black swans that look like (sm)
a giant moustache. My MIL painted it for us and put our last name on it and my DH nailed it to an outside storage room door. It looks ridiculous, and when the kids have other kids over they always ask why we have a giant moustache on our door!
Hayseed was back a few weeks back
But we haven't heard from her since. I miss her too. I hope she's doing okay.
These are all so sweet....
This is the sweetest posts I have read here for a while. I have two. First, the love of Jesus in my life. There is no other comparison to his love. Thank you Jesus! Second, the way my DH searches me out in a crowded room. That makes me feel pretty special! Enjoyed these sweet posts!!
This is actually a sweet one-
My twin sister and I were adopted and from as early as I can remember we were told that we were special cause mommy and daddy got to choose us. For years I envisioned this baby store where parents would cruise up and down the aisles until they found the ones they wanted. And I always did feel special because of it.
Aw, how sweet.
On Father's day I called the house and mom answered, but I had a question about a gift I was getting Dad, so thankfully I thought to ask if Dad was right there too (couldn't tell if we were on speaker). Turned out he had also picked up, which surprised me so much that instead of wishing him a happy FD, I told him he needed to get off the phone! How wude!
I did see him later in the day and apologized, LOL.
How sweet.
My child is the light of my life and love reading things like this. Be sure to write that down so you and she don't forget it as they grow up so quickly. You made my day==thanks!
sweet 16
My daughter is not studious but more of the artsy, eccentric type, but she did not want the big sweet 16 bash. Instead, she had a formal tea party at our house with 7 of her friends. They all wore fancy dresses, high heels. She filled the room with flowers, made little sandwiches, tea obviously, fancy desserts, tablecloths, doilies, etc. It was so over the top, it was funny rather than weird and geeky, and they had a blast! Later, just she and I went to NYC together and saw some plays, went shopping, did museums.
But this is a kid who shops at thrift stores and vintage shops and would not be caught dead in anything bought at a mall. So whatever is "in" is "out" for her.
Sweet 16
How about tickets to a concert by her favorite performer/group for both of them, rented limo to take them to a fancy dinner first? Or, does she know her friend's family well? If so, how about a dual party? Just thinking out loud. It's a special day for her, one she ought to remember always. My parents didn't have a lot of money, and my sweet 16 (a gazillion years ago) was just a house get-together with about 6 people, but it was fun because that special day was acknowledged. I had a cousin whose sweet 16 was held in a nightclub. Trini Lopez was performing there, and I saw Connie Stevens sitting at the next table!
Wow! How sweet to ask! sm
I didn't want to post "little change in condition" but thank you for asking so I will post an update. It is getting worse but not progressing as quickly as I thought it would back on Saturday. I'm having to hand feed her and am trying to find goodies that will tempt her to eat. I had some liquid pain medicine from before and so she was taking that in tuna water (which she used to love) but now won't even drink that so I can't get any pain medication in her. She didn't sleep well last night. She keeps looking at me and meowing and I wish I could speak cat. The time is close I think. I'll let you know when.
sweet
Good to hear you smiling again Hayseed......Cedric is so cute Misha...He and Sasha are gonna keep you busy!
How Sweet!
Wish my baby was still sweet. She's a black lab now 1-1/2 years old and sure knows how to rule hubby. She gives him heck every time he won't do what she wants.
I can't sit on the couch when he's working or she jumps right up on me and lays upside down on my lap. She's no lightweight, either. She weighs 80 pounds.
They want to be near YOU! Sweet! nm
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Definitely not sweet...nm
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Sweet! Sweet! Sweet! - nm
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How sweet! sm
Yeah, it's a bill, but it's something for you specifically, something you can use all by yourself :-)
Of course, you'll use the money on bills that you didn't have to spend on glasses. lol
That was very generous and kind of her.
They look so sweet!
Cat
sweet.
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Thank you, you are so sweet!! nm
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sweet!!!
for clothes
Sweet isn't exactly what he is going for. LOL
Wish it was that simple. He's a man, he has an alterior motive and it's not to be sweet. He even tells me so. lol
Ahh - that's so sweet.
Almost as sweet as my 4 yo saying "you're the best mom in the whole town." LOL
Congratulations for having such a great relationship with your daughter. That's awesome!
God bless!
sweet guy
you are lucky to have a man that cares about you and wants to take care of you! He probably thinks he is doing the right thing so you don't have to worry about those things! Be thankful he doesn't say "get it yourself." if you feel the need to choose things for yourself, do other things like going shopping for clothes or things for the house. boom, choices.
How Sweet!!!!!
He is beautiful!! Feel better Gary!! Thanks for sharing Gary's mom and keep us updated!!
very sweet
loving the colors :)
Now THAT's Sweet!
What a precious memory...for both of you. You are blessed :-)
Aww! she looks sweet.
I love dogs!
Sweet
I love it when things like that happen. We have a family of chipmunks living under our deck. It's not unusual to see several deer in our yard. Drives the dogs crazy. We even had a resident groundhog (we nicknamed him "Groundy") until he got hit by a car a few weeks ago. They're destructive but he liked to go up on our back porch and dig up the moss that grows there, which was extremely helpful.
DH has brought home several abandoned animals he sees on his ride home including a couple of birds - one made it a day, the other was doing well but we didn't know it had learned to fly and before we could get a cage for it to recuperate and/or grow, it flew out of the tall box we had it in while we were at work, and the dogs must have thought it was a toy. I won't say how that ended. He brought home a couple of possum babies last year and though we did everything according to the Internet, the first one died quickly and the second decided to leave the heating pad, unattended. We couldn't find it and I was sick thinking about it rotting somewhere. Thankfully, my dogs kept smelling the closet, so we knew where it had gone. They found him within 24 hours, thankfully. All of these animals would have died in the wild and we fared no better with them, sad to say.
Last year, one of the cats who hangs out with a dozen or so other strays behind a Chinese restaurant (not being funny - that part is true!) followed me home one night. I gave him something to eat and he stayed. We brought him indoors, he had all of his shots and a good ear mite cleaning at the vet. We also had him neutered. $300 later, he got out as I was taking the dogs. He got run over and diet pretty quick. I felt bad. No more strays for us - Pug rescue only.
thanks chickadee, that was really sweet! sm
we have talked quite extensively and i have told him i am not ready for anything serious right now. i just want to enjoy being single and raise my kiddos. he seems to understand that but you are right, a man is a man, lol, and hard to picture him in the doc lifestyle. if nothing but a good friendship comes out of this, it would be nice to have anyway and right now i just need to get out of the house. i am tired of working 24/7, but on the upside he does too!! so i don't think either one of us have time for a relationship, lol.
Your sweet puppy
I'm so very sorry for your loss. It's so difficult to loose someone we love. Have you ever heard of the site, I believe it's called Rainbow's Bridge, the place where our beloved pets pass after they've left us? Please visit the site and register your baby....perhaps it will make you feel just a bit better after you do and be sure to read the poem...
If only they stayed that little and sweet 4-ever...
Mom of 2 in school, and aren't you a nice neighbor. Have fun!
What a face! Sweet!
Thanks for the sweet responses!
Off to get tights and slippers, I guess:-)
Thanks for all these sweet answers and get this,,,
my dear one left for work at 12:30- just called and said he was talking with his friend in California and his friend met a new girl who said she was a size 14. My hubby wanted to know if I was that size or smaller, even a 12. Lordy, lordy, now you know why I say thank you Jesus for this man. I am a size 20 pants but would love to be a 14. I just carry myself well. Ladies, there is still hope out there for everyone!!!
sweet answer!
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You need to be sweet. He is STILL your husband. sm
I would be absolutely devastated if my husband said to me "I just don't feel that way towards you anymore." What are you doing? Love is NOT a feeling. It is a committment. You sound like you have a keeper the way he "feels you up."
Flame away, ladies. Quit being so selfish. Your feelings have nothing to do with your marriage. Do you honestly think that two 90 year olds who have been married for 50+ years have felt the love, passion, etc. during those 50+ years? How about someone being married 10 years? Or 20?
Marriage takes hard work and committment. If we made decisions strictly based on our feelings all the time, then we'd be a wretched mess, which is why a lot of women are in the predicaments they are in today.
Give your husband a chance. Love him. Stay with him because it is the right thing to do. The feelings will come as you see the little things in life mean more than mere "feelings" and "this is what I want," (divorce, etc.).
It DOES get better.
That is so sweet. Thanks for sharing!
My teenage son did something like that, only it was a song that his favorite band (Good Charlotte if anyone is familiar with them) sang and I think it was called Thank You Mom. He sent it in an e-mail thanking me for all I had done for him while he was little and since he has gone off to college. I cried like a baby when I heard it. He also has a My Space page that we can access and under one section, it asks for his hero. He said something to the effect that now that he is out in the "real world" his hero is his dad. They used to fight like cats and dogs, so that was nice to see.
So, they do see what is going on, even if you don't think they do, and they do GET IT eventually.
That is a sweet story!
Lucky rooster! I check the stray section of our local humane society all the time, and there is a rooster there also waiting to be adopted that was picked up as a stray! How funny!
but I don't like sweet drinks, have sm
always been interested in the enhanced ones, and read the labels. Too sweet for me. This is their Smartwater (same company, Glaceau). It is unflavored, just electrolyte enhanced. I love it.
gotta be sweet!!! nm
That's Sasha, too. Sweet dog, and
very ladylike (unless another dog wants her object of great importance). But that's what everybody tells me about a female dog that lifts her leg.
I'd like to get Cesar to come and tell me what's going on with her.
Daughter's sweet 16
I'm asking for ideas. My daughter is a very studious girl who has only a couple of friends, one of whom shares her birthday. Her 16th is coming up. It has been a year of hoopla for girls all around her. Even her friend who shares her birthday is planning a big blast with lots of family and friends. We are basically the only family she has - her father, her 18 year old brother, a 36 year old half brother and his wife, and I. She is very worried about how to celebrate her 16th birthday. Having her best friend put on a bash only seems to point out to her how friendless she is (which doesn't usually bother her). She's looking for alternate ideas for a celebration other than a party or just going out to dinner with her family. We've talked about going to NYC (we live about three hours north) but she's lukewarm about that. Any ideas out there?
This is hilarious and sweet !!!!!..
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Pzp8S_7yspM&eurl=http%3A%2F%2Fgamernode%2Ecom%2FNews%2F4477%2DOld%2Dpeople%2DWii%2DBowling%2Dchampionship%2Dserious%2Dbusiness%2Findex%2Ehtml
I really like sweet tea and cornbread!
I would love to go to every part of this awesome country of ours and taste the different foods from all the different places!
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