Thanks everyone - I know it seems like (sm)
Posted By: Butter and Clutter on 2007-08-03
In Reply to: I have followed your threads since they - trose
"Just do it already!!" But it is such a big decision. He does have some good qualities, has a good job and is sometimes even nice. I mean I wouldn't have married him if he didn't have good qualities. But the bad ones are so hard to live with. Again this morning I talked to him about it - "how can I possibly fix this? If you are not happy with me, I cannot change that." And he says, "Well, you can try to change." And I said, "I have tried for years, it's never good enough." So he says,"I'll just get over it. I'll overlook it...and if you would have sex with me, that would go a long way." And I say, "how can I have sex with someone who thinks all those bad things about me?" So we are at a gridlock. I really do not see a way to fix it.
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