Thank you all
Posted By: Ms. Guilt trip on 2008-04-19
In Reply to: What do you think - Ms. Guilt trip
I have read all your posts. Not sure if any of you will see this as there are many posts after this. I'm taking all your messages to heart. We've been married over 25 years, so no, I'm not going to just divorce him. He may have a lot of faults but he is also a good man. No, I'm not making excuses for his crappy attitude sometimes, but there's more good to him that I have lived with. All I wish is that he would be a little more "open" when it comes to family. It's not just my family - he is the same way with his family. Visiting is fine for a few hours but then he wants them gone. Yes it is my fault that when we were first married I didn't nip this in the bud. Actually I tried. We fought like cats and dogs for months and months. Then I just got tired of fighting cos I would end up sick to my stomach, so was just easier to let things go in one ear and out the other, so maybe yes I do deserve what I get. I think what I will do is look for some self help books, and within the next couple days I'm going to tell him that for my sister's 50th she wants to do something special because she never does anything so she wants to come out and seeing as its been 3 years since I've seen her I'm totally excited and can't wait. If at that point I get any inkling of flack with him then I will tell him that he doesn't have to see her and I will meet her and we'll spend the weekend together and he can stay home.
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