Thank You
Posted By: Done on 2008-05-27
In Reply to: Bad marriage - Chavera
Thank you all for your support and encouragement. I think I just needed to hear some positive remarks from people who have been in my shoes. I'm sure my kids sense something something is different as we are no longer loving at all and other than speaking when spoken to, I am generally silent. Thus, why I feel so alone all the time.
I liked the comment that I should fire the husband back a letter but unfortunately, I am too nice. I did sit him down and tell him how I felt, in which he apologized and promised to work harder and in fact, has done a bit better, but when you are out of love, you are out of love and if that makes me selfish that I want to be important to someone and loved by someone and cherished, so be it. Once negative comments are shot at someone, there are only so many years one can take it.
I hope to make a decision soon, still going through the positives and negatives. I will have to work full-time for the first time in 16 years but so be it, like the poster above it will be worth it to be free!
Thank you again for helping me when I was feeling down.
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