Sounds good to me. I am going to get in that car and go or go with a travel group. Life is too
Posted By: PAMT on 2007-05-01
In Reply to: Love your answer - Susan
short to wait around on other people for whatever. Probably plenty of people to talk to. I just got out of the habit of going alone actually and it is time to get back into it. Sometimes I agree you go with people and spend more time worrying if they like where you wanted to go than doing what you want. Yep I am going to go for it.
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Sounds like I'm not the only one who daydreams of a better life! sm
I too have had it all planned out in my head at least a gazillion times!!! It all seems a lot easier to plan than to actually put into action, especially knowing that the "jerk" won't agree to any of it, if nothing else for spite! There is never an easy answer to this. Despite it all I still love the man with all my heart, I just can't stand to be around him much anymore. He makes me so miserable. I use to blame it all on myself and think there was something wrong with me for him to be so unhappy. Now I realize there is something seriously wrong with him!
Your life sounds like mine and all
the other gays out there. I cannot believe someone actually said that we had an "agenda" and pushing it down their throats. They are just uninformed and ignorant and unfortunately, they worry too much what goes on behind closed doors. Perhaps if they would not concentrate on the bedroom so much, they could actually see that we are no different from them. I am "out" and my family and friends accept me for who I am and not what I am - I am no different from anyone else just because I am gay. It still amazes me that people can be so ignorant but that is just the way they were brought up. I was raised to respect all people no matter the color, orientation, etc. Obviously the poster here's why is the one with the agenda.
Sounds like he's blaming everything that's wrong in HIS life
Will he go with you to see a marriage counselor? It's time he faced up to HIS issues - being overly controlling, emotionally abusive, holding you to impossible standards then blaming you for not meeting them.
If he really wants to start over, the first step should be marriage counseling, AT LEAST once a week, twice would be better. If he won't agree to that, tell him to take HIS half of the equity and get out. And don't let the door hit is @ss on the way out.
Keeping that part of my life separate sounds best -
I have been asked on dates but just have not been interested. I feel stuck just wishing we could all be a normal family again (the 4 of us). I even think ahead to when I'm a grandma down the road and still can't picture me with a new man! I don't know, maybe I'm just destined to remain alone unless I met the guy who was a perfect fit with my kids.
I've heard of tops and also heard it is a good group.
I really am happy for you that your life is good (sm)
But who knows if mine would really end up better if I left? It might not. It might be worse.
glad you had a good life
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_N_SqLljunQ&feature=related
Does life in prison sound good to you? I would
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yes, its a wonderful life -- a feel-good movie :)
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sounds good
I think we need everyone to give their favorite sandwich recipe so we can try them all.
my own favorite is radishes, avacado, sweet onion and provolone cheese on whole wheat toast....
i'm getting hungry
Sounds too good!
Bare minerals are very nice, however, I did not like the installment plan deal. Be careful what you get into. We work like slaves by the line, so I am very careful where my money goes. Look beautiful!
That sounds so good...sm
Now pair it with a triple layer hummas (found at super Walmart) and wheat pita bread/flatbread for dipping. It's very light fare, nutritious and super yummy.... Cat
Yum, that sounds good
My parents are from out of town and they stay overnight, so in the morning after the kids open their presents we make pancakes, eggs, and bacon or sausage.
Sounds good
but I do not think that would work with the two people in my household. I was laid up for 3 months following a major foot surgery (total non-weightbearing). I had to sleep in the recliner to be comfortable etc for 3 months. Even to get someone to help me to get up and down to utilize the walker to get to my wheelchair was a chore. I told them next time I am going to a nursing home, at least I could get my hair washed. They did absolutely nothing while I was laid up. I am still trying to dig out.
Sounds good! . . . sm
I think most boxed puddings have a recipe for pudding and a different one for pie filling. I think I would use the one for pie filling because it is thicker. My MIL makes something like this and I love it! Good luck!
that sounds GOOD
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Sounds good
Thanks for the input. I really don't want to mess with batteries either, so I'll see what I can find in the passive version. :)
thank you it sounds good nm
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Thanks - sounds good, and so does the one below:-) nm
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Sounds really good. (nm)
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That sounds so good.
Is it diabetic? lol. Thanks, I'll give it a try.
That sounds like a good plan...
but I would be exhausted! I have a very large family to shop for!!!
here's an old adage: If it sounds too good to be..NM
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sounds like you have a good time together
that is so funny!! I love stories like that
Sounds good, then just be patient....sm
and please let us know when you are 6-8 weeks into using it....I so hope it works for you, it worked for me and 2 of my friends (they had lost their hair to chemo), one of whom finished chemo in November and has nearly 2" of growth all over her head now and thick!! (post-Fermodyl)....
This sounds soooo good - sm
do you get this out or you make it yourself? If you make it yourself, how?
Sounds like one of those good ole boys
sitting around with a can of beer, got a cigarette behind his ear, wearing that wife beater T-shirt, either trying to go to the race track or watching his fav, Dale, Jr. You have it going on, don't you?
Sounds like a good plan then!
Now you won't feel the need to modify it.
That sounds like a good idea. Thanks.
mexican sounds good.
I love guacamole. I slice them in my salads and top them on turkey burgers too.
sounds like you're doing good
If you can make jam cake and cornbread, you are a Kentucky gal now! I live in Northeasten KY in a small town - though not as small as yours - I lived here my entire life and when I married, we moved to Shreveportm, Louisiana for a couple of years - so that was culture shock for me!
Great - Sounds good to me
My accountant will be filing ours within the next few weeks.
Sounds like a good plan. . sm
When I was going through something similar, I had to have see it with my own eyes. No matter how suspicious I was, he would always dismiss everything. Again, I really hope there isn't really anything going on!
sounds like a good idea to me! nm
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Sounds almost as good as my sweet
and sour baked beans I posted a while back. Yeh would like recipe for this dish.
That sounds like a good book.
I just finished Obama's biography and have started his "Audacity of Hope"
Sounds like you have a good marriage....
and have not had the chance to experience being alone. I also would never get married again as I love living alone, comfortable in my own skin and do not need anyone to make my life "whole".
I also think it is older women who feel this way. I think when you hit your 40's, you find yourself and realize your wants and needs that make you happy. You are not constantly making other people happy and ignoring yourself.
As for me, I could not imagine living with someone again. It would be an intrusion on my life - a life I love.
You really have no right to say "how sad". You are happily married and I congratulate you. I am happily single as are many other people who do not have to depend on a man or anyone for that matter for their happiness. Happiness comes from within.
Sounds good. I've been looking at them again.
The coal stove heats our whole house except the bedroom when the door is closed at night and the fan DH put through the wall is so noisy, you can't sleep for about a week until you get used to it. 
Thanks for the info! I'll let ya know if we get one. Have to do some cajoling now. 
That sounds so good. Thanks for the recipe. NM
Here I've lived in Texas most of my life and never made homemade chili pie. This sounds delicious, and I will definitely write down that recipe! Thanks again for sharing!
Sounds good, email me too!
and/or post a link on here. :)
Sounds like the good 'ol nolovirus or whatever - sm
it is called. I had a similar experience just a couple days ago -- stomach felt horrible, went in bathroom, sat down to go, felt a huge buzzing in my ears/head. I ended up just laying down on the floor for a while until I did not feel as faint, then went back to my business feeling a bit better after my lay down. Luckily this time I did not throw up (had this once already a month ago, threw up 8 times on and off the toilet-- fun stuff). The few times I get dizzy in these circumstances I just lay on the floor until I feel better, usually only takes a few minutes. I hope you are feeling better.
I'm hungry and that sounds pretty good right now...
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Ok, sounds good, but what about the warm drinks? nm
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Well it sounds good but a true caring
and giving person that gives from the heart and not merely to impress would also probably not have thrown a post like that in the middle of ones where people are obviously having great financial difficulties. LOL. Sometimes ya just gotta laugh.
Bless you all that are having money problems and I hope things get better for you soon. And, remember, this too shall pass.
make it thick - sounds good
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What's a sherbet bunny? Sounds good
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Sounds like you found a good therapist sm
we went through a horrible spell last year - daughter 17 wanted to get married a month before she turned 18, my husband supported this idea - she just graduated in May, no job, no license, no means of support and husband to be was just graduating, etc. They are good kids but very young. Husband supported her all the way and I was the bad guy for making her think things through hoping she would slow down a bit, etc. Therapist made her dad get more involved but they did marry and now she rarely if ever speaks to me - she looks at me as nonsupportive. Does not matter I busted my butt to see she had the wedding she wanted,etc. I'm just numb at this point with her - she'll come around some day. In the mean time the ocnflicts between me and DH have stopped but his nonsupport will hurt for a logn time also. I believe parents should always be a team.
Good for you! To read your posts, it really sounds - (sm)
like something has happened with her, since this is a change of character for her. You said she was an awesome friend for many years, and she probably was. But something happened to change that. It could be any one of many reasons, too: Drug habit, early dementia/Alzheimer's, schizophrenia, even a brain tumor. The latter sounds very possible. I wonder what her husband thinks about all this. He seems like a pretty decent guy. Depending on how you view his friendship, you may or may not want to discuss the problem with him. Maybe he needs to get her to a doctor.
I think you were lucky when he offered to do the work on your house for a low price, and DIDN'T screw it up. So many times, you hear horror stories about such things. So the fact that he did the work, and it turned out well, sounds like you have an asset in his continued friendship. BUT, you of course want nothing more to do with the wife.
The easiest thing would probably be to just cut all ties with them both, but I still have this feeling the husband is a good guy. He could be caught in the middle of all this. Or in denial that the lady has a serious mental problem going on. It would also be interesting to know WHY she lost her job. The mental issue could very likely be the reason.
Anyway, I think you were very wise to change the locks! ;D
I found this one for a creamy version. never tried it, but it sounds good. sm
Creamy Macaroni and Cheese
Time: 1 hour 15 minutes
2 tablespoons butter
1 cup cottage cheese (not lowfat)
2 cups milk (not skim)
1 teaspoon dry mustard
Pinch cayenne
Pinch freshly grated nutmeg
½ teaspoon salt
¼ teaspoon freshly ground black pepper
1 pound sharp or extra-sharp cheddar cheese, grated
½ pound elbow pasta, uncooked.
1. Heat oven to 375 degrees and position an oven rack in upper third of oven. Use 1 tablespoon butter to butter a 9-inch round or square baking pan.
2. In a blender, purée cottage cheese, milk, mustard, cayenne, nutmeg and salt and pepper together. Reserve ¼ cup grated cheese for topping. In a large bowl, combine remaining grated cheese, milk mixture and uncooked pasta. Pour into prepared pan, cover tightly with foil and bake 30 minutes.
3. Uncover pan, stir gently, sprinkle with reserved cheese and dot with remaining tablespoon butter. Bake, uncovered, 30 minutes more, until browned. Let cool at least 15 minutes bef
Sorry, but he really sounds like a piece of work.....good luck! ; )
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Gotta make sure I have that address! Sounds GOOD. NM
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