So sorry. You really were deceived. Yes, she was more

• I don't know, this post down below has me thinking. What are your thoughts, woman to woman. sm - Mom and Wife
  • Equally upset at either, but for different reasons. nm - CL
  • Neither - Anon
    • I agree whole-heartedly. At that point...sm - Been there...
    • Well, that is exactly what Jennifer Anniston and Brad Pitt said sm - Mom and Wife
      • Just another note - Anon
      • so agree - jlynn
    • Great answer... - blondie
  • The gender wouldn't be an issue with me, because - cheating is cheating. Period. -nm
  • More upset if with a man. Lie #1 is the affair, lie #2 is that he's gay and didn't tell me bef - R
  • More upset with male, although I see your SM - seppi
  • I have experienced both - Thinking
  • women beat themselves up - it NEVER - sm - mdlfcrs
    • My ex-husband had an affair - scarred MT
      • I would think - Rory
      • So sorry. You really were deceived. Yes, she was more - to blame. Sorry.
      • I am so, so sorry that this happened to you. I really am. sm - Mom and Wife
        • It broke up both our marriages. - and affected many people

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