So MTmommy and Kendra, question for you
Posted By: Ansley on 2009-02-03
In Reply to: I agree--I have a 2-year-old, as well... - Kendra
I noticed the ages of your children and both said 2. Have you worked outside the home before these children were born?
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Kendra, I'm right there with you...
I've got an entire SET of matched baggage I lug around with me courtesy of my mother. My BF, whose mother abandoned him for many years when his father was killed, has not only forgiven her but treats her with the utmost respect and no hidden hostility. He also treats ME with great respect and any other woman I've ever seen him encounter.
I don't think the average guy has issues because of mumsy. Maybe the proverbial "mama's boy," who was waited on hand foot and his every whim catered to, who then expects his GF/wife to follow suit.
But I agree...I know far more women, such as myself, who lug the baggage courtesy of their mothers, not men.
Well put, Kendra
*I am not against a hand UP but I am very much against a hand OUT.*
Very, very well put. I become infuriated when I know people who making living off of the system a lifestyle and feel entitled to it, when so many others genuinely need help and cannot get it. The system was made to be 'assistance', not a lifelong support.
IMO, people living off of the system just drain it so that those who really do need a *hand UP* cannot get it.
Kendra, that is why I have my own ATM and
hubby has his own. I don’t use his, he doesnt use mine. Works out really good that way. We neither one know what kind of money the other one has.
Congratulations Kendra!
Assuming from your post you are pregnant too. That's wonderful! :)
I'm pregnant and there's a lot I would tell people for the money too. Can't say I blame he/she...I blame the people who buy the magazines and watch the TV interviews. I don't support it one bit. No different than any other woman getting IVF.
Kendra, I'm with you completely on this
I have a lot of animals and unfortunately have lost a few through the years. It is never easy and I have never stopped feeling conflicted about the decision to euthenize them, for the same reasons you mentioned. If I am reasonably sure they aren't suffering, and if I still see a spark of joy or love of life in their eyes I do what I can to support them, JUST LIKE I DID FOR MY MOM when she was paralyzed and bedridden, being fed through an NG tube after multiple strokes. She indicated to me that her life was still valuable to her, and I find it very difficult to determine when life ceases to be valuable to the person or animal living it. Also, I have seen miraculous recoveries after all hope was lost. I'm perplexed that we assume an injection is the "humane" way to deal with ailing pets yet recoil at the thought of human euthenisia.
Love and blessings to all of you going through this.
Sorry, that was Chia saying that, not Kendra
Reading the post and I do not see where that was said they did not need the jacket. Was that in another post?
Kendra, join in whenever. You would think with all the
negative that NO one else ever heard some of these things. Now, really! I left out some really juicy ones. Guess I will have to do a part 2, you think?
Kenna, Kendra, Kimberley nm
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awww...hang in there Kendra...
he will be home in no time and you can have all the sex you want!!!
Kendra, I did not read what you did, where did the person
buying jacket from QVC said they did not need? Maybe I missed it?
Like I said before, Kendra, READ THE ORIGINAL POST.
Sheesh.....!
Kendra! READ the post! Nothing was mentioned
And seriously consider getting your tubes tied.........
I agree with Kendra, if you fear he would be physicall abusive - (sm)
then you need to be away from him. He is just your boyfriend, right? Not even your husband. I left a marriage recently from an abusive husband. He "only" beat me physically once, but he was controlling and emotionally abusive at other times AND he looked at young lesbian porn online. If I ever start dating someone and I get even a hint that they could ever become physically abusive to me I will run from that relationship so fast your head would spin. Please get away from him!! Dont even deal with it another day.
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