Question
Posted By: ? on 2009-05-27
In Reply to: I think I'm going crazy - need some insight (long) - anon(but a different one)
Were you by any chance raised in a chaotic household, lots of moving around or upheaval whether emotional or physical?
I always resisted 'settling down' and never was able to handle a relationship. I didn't like stability and to me stability meant boredom. It took a long time for me to realize how I was the one creating the drama in my life and sabotaging relationships.
To make a long story short, it boiled down to my upbringing, which was full of my parents fighting, moving about every 6 months, and something or someone ALWAYS in an uproar.
Because I didn't know what a 'normal' or 'calm' atmosphere was, 'chaos' was MY comfort zone; it was what I was raised with and what I subconciously sought out.
Could that be your problem as well? You sound an awful lot like I did at your age, and it's a horrible thing to go through.
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