Okay everyone, I have a question.

My husband has been acting a little odd lately.  Let me explain.  Around the holidays, I picked up some soaps from Bath and Body.  Well he went on and on about how great they smelled.  Recently started running out and he went on the website, saw they were on sale and went out and got a bunch of them.  Okay.  Then, I always burn candles while working, etc.  We have computers in separate rooms of the house.  So, he began taking mine and using them.  Okay.  So I actually got him a candle for Valentine's Day!  Now, tonight, I ran a bath and filled it with bubble bath soap for a nice bubble bath and sat down to finish up my work before taking my bath.  Well, he says to me, that bath looks very inviting, can I take your bath and you take one later?  Um, okay.  So he did. 

Now, he's definitely into women.  When I began dating him I found the typical dirty magazines laying around, videos, etc..  He's had past girlfriends and long relationships.  And he loves sex.  He is very masculine, lot of body hair, etc.  So, I'm confused! 

Is this normal?  Would this bother you?  Curious as to what you all think?

• Okay everyone, I have a question. - RR
  • Thanks for the replies everyone....sm - RR
  • Fragrances can trigger relaxation. - Misha
  • mine LOVES coconut lime verbena from BABW. LOVES it - thanks
  • Well, my sister's husband steals - me
  • Feminine wipes........ - KAT
  • I wouldn't worry too much! - stacy72468
  • Pop in the tub with him next time or invite him into the shower with you. Might - find your answers that way! :) nm
  • I wouldn't worry - I think he just likes the scent. (sm) - Jurassic MT
  • Sounds to me like he is trying to integrate your - the way we were
  • Sounds downright weird to me - see msg
    • I know my hubby is far too manly to take - Jen
      • Why does it make a man feminized if he enjoys things - Wannie
        • My stepmother and father (a total man's man) - trose
          • Exactly....great post! NM - TM
        • The older guys, unless cross dressing - Jen
          • This post is where the fingernail polish is mentioned - by Jen, so why has bubble bath
          • Don't want to be rude, but I don't recall mentioning - Wannie
            • See response to your above post - Jen.
              • I did. My original comment was about how my son enjoys - Wannie
          • How did an innocent bubble bath - turn into using nail polish?
            • Masculine equals bubble baths?? - Jen
              • yes jen, i agree - me again
            • i think it MUST be a generation thing - me again
              • My husband only uses - TM
              • AND - me again
                • You and I have the same man! - Jen
                  • bubble baths with one's hubby is quite sensuous... - you 2 seem completely closed minded...LOL
                    • No bubble baths for me nor - Jen
  • How Long Have You Been Married? - Amanda
  • wouldn't bother me...maybe he is just suddenly==sm - nn
    • I'm with them. There is a term called metrosexual. Don't - worry, or ask to get in bath with him.
    • That's exactly what I was thinking. Aromatherapy. Wouldn't worry a bit. nm - MQer
  • could be the beginnings of a midlife crisis....mine - began his at 35 years old....sm
  • sudden change - mdlfcrs

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