Not really
Posted By: anon(but a different one) on 2009-05-28
In Reply to: Just my opinion: If you feel like that something - *
I would talk to my mom, but she would tell me to make a run for it (she's not one for relationship advice lol) and I find it hard to talk to my friends because most of them are mutual. I do have one friend I have talked to, she is pretty much in the same boat age and marriage-wise but with a one year old baby, but she pretty much is living the Beaver Cleaver life (at least to me). Doesn't work, stay at home mom, beautiful house, beautiful baby, etc., so she either won't talk about the problems they do have or they don't have any.
I did talk to my husband a little bit last night. He said we would make an effort to try and do more things together and to not be so complacent in our marriage. I told him one thing that bothered me is when he gets up in the morning or comes home from work, he just comes in the living room and sits down, doesn't give me a hug or anything. So this morning he got up with me and gave me a kiss and we made breakfast together. That was really nice.
I feel better knowing that this is normal. I think a lot of it too is just that I know some big decisions are on the horizon, like moving to a new town, considering kids, career changes, etc., and I've always shied away from big decisions.
But ya'll are right, I've got it good. I just need to get out of my own head!
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