Not all, you just have to

• Husband so disrespectful (in & out of bed) am I overreacting? sm - Anon
  • reads like he's disrespectful to women in general - passive-aggressive type? If so,....sm
  • sounds like you guys are playing a game, - otherwise you would have left by now. n/m
  • I agree with QArbouncin...sm - dinosaur
    • Thank you-I know it's bad - if it was happening to a friend (sm) - anon
      • So, Anon, be your own Best Friend... - dinosaur
  • The mere fact - QArbouncin
  • disrespectful husband - tanmama
    • Tanmana - here's what mine did! (sm) - Anon
      • I meant Tanmama - why do they have to (sm) - Anon
        • disrespectful husband - tanmama
          • I knnow - it makes you feel like such a fake (sm) - anon
            • disrespectful husband - tanmama
  • You really don’t say, by the way, - Joan
    • Anon - please get help today - - dinosaur
      • Thank you, I'm not scared though, just disgusted (sm) - Anon
    • Way, far from a prude - no details here but (sm) - Anon
  • It seems to me the key here is whether this behavior sm - searching
    • He was always that way, getting worse (sm) - Anon
  • It's not the dirty talk - it's the disrespect (sm)... - dinosaur
    • husband's behavior due to porn, LOL - What's wrong with porn?
      • meant "consenting adults." LOL - nm
  • he/s probably always been immature - get some counseling
    • We've been to several marriage counsellors -done with that (nm) - Anon
      • husband - stephanie
        • Agree. He's a pig and has totally no respect for you. Move on. nm - There are better men out there!!!
  • Older lady here, some insight maybe - Joan
    • Huh? - QArbouncin
      • The post says she has withheld - Joan
        • Not withholding as punishment - withholding as a reaction (sm) - anon
          • Thank goodness don’t have to worry about - Joan
            • Thanks - that is a major factor in my decision (sm) - anon
              • This I can guarantee - Joan
    • Well... (sm) - Anon
  • Are they all like that? I guess that's what I really want to know - Anon
    • they're not like that, if you don't enable them to be like that.... - from the beginning. n/m
      • Yep, that's exactly what I did!! (nm) - Anon
    • Not all, you just have to - Joan
      • Ditto! 27+ yrs together and he still says he loves me EVERY day, AND thanks me - for sex! ;) ..He's a keeper! NM

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