No offense, but this is a no-brainer
Posted By: Captain Anesthesia on 2008-12-17
In Reply to: Even if I was to try to overcome my lack of desire for him (sm) - anon
GET OUT NOW, ASAP, for your sake and your kids. Don't think about why because you already have the answers. Just do it. It's wrong, it's over, period. May the light stay with you.
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This is a no brainer...
you tell them about the mistake and pay the $8000. I am curious why you would even have to ask what to do.
This is a no-brainer
He's gambling the money - again. Your long post is full of denial. You do no one - especially your children - any good when you're in this denial. Here's some unsolicited advice: Seek some help from Al-Anon and you will know what to do.
yes, its a no-brainer.
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The whole relationship should have been a no-brainer
Frankly, I thought he should have been given more punishment myself, but I don't think the DA/ADA really put a lot of effort into it. As I mentioned, they were going to accept the SIS until I pointed out that I didn't approve on the basis that it's not like another conviction would be destroying a lily-white record, at which point the ADA flipped through the file and said, "Wow, this guy belongs in jail." Going into it, the 'scoop' on the judge were that the 3 things he hated most were drunks, deadbeat dads, and woman-hitters, and the ex was the trifecta (he's about $1100 behind in his child support), but somehow he got to skate away. I do have mixed feelings about the sentence; I wasn't really injured, but on the other hand that was only because I called before it got worse.
I have my own share of self-esteem issues, which is why I stuck it out as long as I did. The only thing Dr. Phil ever said that made sense to me was, "We generate the reality we think we deserve." So I'm spending some quality time channeling Stuart Smalley and doing my self-affirmations, have blocked his phone, and am generating my new reality.
No brainer. YOu can get locks for fridge to keep
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For a no-brainer movie, 40-year-old Virgin...
and I love all the old movies on TCM, like Mildred Pierce, Postman Always Rings Twice, etc., mostly anything from the 1930s to 1950s. Also love all mob movies, especially Goodfellas.
I'm sorry and I mean no offense...
but I just don't get what the fascination is with this whole story. Why does anyone other than the family care where this woman is buried or who is or isn't at the church? The AP boycotted reporting anything to do with Paris Hilton for a week. I think Anna Nicole Smith should be next.
No offense taken
If you meant me, no problem, and no offense taken. I understand your point. I went to parochial school and all the kids in my class including the Headmaster's kid including the other pastor's kids were the ones who smoked in the bathroom, picked on people, etc. I think they were rebelling against their parents to test boundaries. I just wanted to let you see another side of the story. When I was a member and not a Pastor's wife, I was fascinated about the lifestyle or what they were like when they were at home (pastor and family). It was just a curiosity. I never realized that I stared, and watched, but I did. People do this to us now, and I have to realize it is just plain curiosity. No we don't walk around with our hands held in prayer every minute, and no we don't sing hymns every minute of the day or quote scripture. Actually we love to eat pizza and watch Law and Order when the children are with their grandma. And when the children are home they watch cartoon network and play outside like anyone else. Not offended at all in the least. Just wondering as a normal parent how in the world to raise perfect kids and I think I have no clue about that. I am just doing the best I can to raise them with a conscience. :)
No offense or anything, but the fascinating
thing about TV is that there is an off button. :)
Personally, I don't care for half of what the news reports, or at least attempts to report. There are much better sources for real information out there and not this show they put on.
I am one who has had an interest in watching what has been said through this whole ordeal, so I watch it.
No offense to you intended, but
that is pretty much a no brainer. Of course they were degrading to her; she was degrading herself, so what to expect? I'm not trying to be down on people who do this for a living. I know there is great money to be made, but at the cost of self respect (usually, not always) and no respect from the clientele (almost always, whether or not the stripper is aware of this). Some people thrive on the attention (my cousin-in-law, for example, who brags about every male in the neighborhood wanting to 'do' her, etc. -- used to be a stripper and loved every minute of it; wishes she could still do it) Personally, I have had many a time where I was made to feel dirty by men, and I was not stripping for them or anything else. Leering just makes me uneasy, to say the least. Also, of the few strippers personally known to me, I always hear the same thing -- had to be drunk to do the job (again, not always the case, but it is what I have been told by several of them). Now, I have always said, if the men are s t u p i d enough, have at it and glad for those who make the money off of that, but I could never go there.
no offense to anying - I said *males*....sm
because we had an awful experience for a couple of years with a female orthodontist.......so no offense meant to anyone 
oh lawdy and now a typo - no offense to ANYONE...
geesh, where's my fingers today ? *LOL*
No offense but if that's what thin people have to eat...
I'd rather be fat. LOL
No offense, but she needs a more explicit book. With pictures, for SM
her and her husband to try, eh, different things. We are not talking specifically romance here, but nitty. gritty, spark flying stuff.
I disagree with this poster. No offense, but this industry is STILL looking for good MTs to sm
pump out the workload as so many are either: A. Getting out of the business (by the hundreds). B. Retiring. C. Moving into editing, etc.
I've been doing this from home for about 10 years now.
Don't discourage someone from getting into this field. She wants to be with her family and make an income. MTing can help her do that!
And if down the road this profession is null and void, then she has something to fall back on. At least she HAS something to fall back on, unlike a lot of us here.
To the original poster, I wouldn't leave my kiddies for anything in the world. There is no care like your care. Do whatever you can to find work at home. Email me if you are looking for a work-from-home opportunity.
For most part, women dont go ballistic 1st offense.
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