My stepmom, rest her soul
Posted By: Kids! on 2007-12-07
In Reply to: LOL Preacher's kids - MTmomof3
used to love to have my child visit (we are talking in 60s/70s and so) as did her mother who visited them quite a bit. She always talked about how my son loved to be around her mother, her mother quilted, broke the beans in the summer as did my son right along with them. The stepmom only in say 14 years or so (they first took him home with them, my dad and his wife when my son less than 6 months old) that my son acted out on her- at a grocery when she had bought him something and he wanted more. She was mortified that he would have done this. She said he never did this again as he got his privilges taken away. The kids now are certainly in a different place then when mine growing up and I think the Man above for allowing me to raise my children then, not now.
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Rest. doing bad, Chef comes in sets things right, rest. does okay,
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Dear stepmom
Excuse me dear stepmom but kids don't actually get their child support...Divorced women use that money to support that child; you know put a roof over their head, food, clothing, medical care, sports, school books, etc..all the things a parent is supposed to do even once they are divorced from the father of their children. If your husband (their father) is too cheap to pay for the college education of his children that is his and your fault (and yes that does make you wicked). Please don't try to blame the kids. And no I'm not divorced and the father of my children still live together and support our children together, I'm just not that dumb.
Be happy that the stepmom there is respecting
your wishes. She could very easily have said, "You're 18, you decide." Or "This is my house, my rules."
Instead, she did the right thing, which was to play by the rules YOU play by at your home and they do not sleep together so... what's your gripe? Just that she said she didn't care? I don't get it.
the stepmom is respecting your wishes
accept that they are all respecting your wishes and thank them for that.
reminds me of the stepmom posts
everybody likes a reward
I think soul..
food cookers like their shade slow cooked with extra gravy!!!(lamp) LOL
God keep her little soul...sm
I have a 3-year-old daughter, just a couple months younger than Caylee Anthony. This story has shaken me from the very start. I just cannot understand. My life would be over if something happened to my daughter. I'm sure the grief would kill me. I hope and pray that she is with God now and that her family, the ones who loved her, that is, can have some peace and healing. So incredibly sad.
Wise ol' soul
I really do, especially around this time of year. But, I ws lucky to have him as long as i did. 
And, Silver has always been a wise ol' soul. He is a great comfort. But, unfortunately Silver has cancer and is getting really thin. So, I think he will be with my husband before too long.
That picture was taken a few years ago.
battle for your soul
I finally had to pretend God and the devil were fighting it out for my soul. So I wasn't standing up to the cigarettes, but the devil himself. God won. A little melodramatic, but withdrawal is pretty dramatic.
soul mate
I am not sure what your definition of a soul mate is or your definition of a good husband, but when you complain about your husband not being helpful enough to you, it sounds like you want to hire a nanny.
You are a good soul to care for her
It sounds like no one has cared for her in quite some time. I believe kennel cough is easily treatable and hopefully the other things will be too. She must be going through a rough time with all that going on and adjusting to her new home. I hope she brings you much joy and happiness !
poor troubled soul?!
Hopefully, the good Lord will see to it that this "poor troubled soul" gets what he rightfully deserves for killing and quickly! Instead bless the innocents that happened to get in this idiot's way!
bless your soul....thanks for watching our for defensless friends.
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no, abortion is taking a HUMAN life with a soul.
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I LOVED Bobby Sherman and David Soul, sm
Now, it's Zac Efron. Yeah, yeah, I know, I'm WAYYYYY too old, but he is such a cutie, and I don't think I'm the only mom that thinks that way - thank heaven's he's 21..
I prefer Danny. He's got soul, unlike Adam.
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Trulyl inspiring. What you have both found your soul-mates for life. For most,
and I can tell you from experience and experience of friends and family, a lot of problems in marriage is caused by selfishness. I'm saying a lot, not all problems.
If you both give selflessly (thus, having to work at it), then you can have a great marriage.
Some marriages come naturally (like yours) and others not so natural. Two people brought together with different needs and wants and desires and we must let them "be" and give a lot of ourselves, and them to us, and then your marriage can be wonderful.
Stepdaughter calls me "SM" (stepmom), daugher calls me mom. nm
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this is funny *lol*.......el....ya know the rest
    
LOL - no, the rest were a partial
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Good. She is no better than the rest
of us, but she thinks she is. Isn't she 26 years old??? GROW UP. GEEZ. She is just getting too much attention and SHAME ON HER PARENTS. They are enalbing her. 45 days. GREAT. She better not get out again.
Her visitors can bring her magazines and books, or maybe she cannot read. LOL
Me too! But I cook, he does all the rest : )
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Rest in Peace,
Oh NO! I didn't know. I am devastated!
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God help the rest of you if you're ever in need!! sm
I can't believe nobody could possibly believe maybe this man just has a kind heart and saw a woman about to give birth ALONE, who's maybe not in the best of situations, and he was able to help.
There are kind people in the world, and really they have known this woman for a decade, there is a friendship there.
My husband doesn't consult me on purchases, nor do I consult him, we have separate accounts, we make our own money to use as we wish. I can assume this couple is the same way, since the OP had to check HIS checkbook to even know what he spent.
The stylist was lucky to have a customer with a heart.
The rest of the story . . .
I took him the stuff as a thank you for his time and because he looked like death warmed over (found out later he'd pulled 16 hours, off for five, and called back to that intersection). Actually, when he came back with flowers I was shocked. I figured his main agenda was to talk me out my panties since his girlfriend was on a cruise or something. I had just come out of a 14-year marriage that went from good to bad to downright ugly. The last thing I wanted (or felt I deserved) was attention from a decent man. I said thank you for the flowers but I can't accept them. I would put water out for a dog on a day like that. No big deal. I declined his offer to go out and he persisted. I figured he was turned on by a challenge and I would stop this right quick. I told him I was fresh out of a bad marriage and that I like my men like my cats--neutered. Well, he had a thing or two to say to me. He said he simply wanted to take me to dinner for my kindness in giving a snack, he wasn't trying to get in my pants, and he sure as hell wasn't asking to marry me (God help the poor SOB who ever did ask me is what he said). Well, then I felt like a hateful shrew so I apologized and agreed to meet him that Saturday in a public restaurant. We had a very nice time. He gave me his number and said call when you feel like it and I hope you will share your number with me if you feel comfortable. No pressure. He became my best friend and true partner.
Thank you for sharing the rest of
the story. It just proves there are really decent people out there, but sometimes it is difficult to trust. I am the same way. I am so glad things worked out the way they did for you!
Do not know much what is going on in the rest of the world, outside US........nm
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there is really no bed rest anymore -
I went home from the hospital 12 hours after my son was born and had no problems whatsoever. I was at Wal-Mart shopping that night because the doctor told me it was good to start walking and just not to overdo it.
I don't remember there being any pain after he was born, just soreness all over really.
Because the rest of the thread was compromised & only the OP
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It's a really nice foot rest ...
because most of the time you are not going to want to lift it down. If they still have pictures of the tablets, that was a handy feature in case you ever find an unpackaged tablet in your house and can't identify it. :oD
Strippers work for $ just like the rest of us.
What is the big deal?
The rest of the Sweet Adelines
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Time to finally put the Sox to rest...
and move on the World Series. GO TRIBE!
So why has most of the rest of world abolished
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Blessed, Stressed, and Need More Rest
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While the rest of the country prospers, it sure seems like
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Rest in peace, Fred!
We just put our 22-year-old cat, Fred, to sleep this evening. He had wasted away from 17 pounds to 5 pounds and was too weak to stand or eat. He was a loving companion for the past 22 years and will be missed dearly.
Rest in peace, Fred. Benny, Gus, and Lily will be waiting in heaven to greet you with open arms!
secluded from the rest of the inmate population
They may be citizens and are paying taxes like the rest of us.
What difference does it make?
Agree with that! Looking down from her high horse on the rest of us?!!!
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Ex-husband had it. Same thing..out of nowhere, even at rest, his heart would just take off, up
over 200 beats a minutes. It was very scary. I think his was caused by congenitally having an extra vein or artery on his heart on the underside to which electrical currents travels and no way to slow it down. Evidently, he went to a cardiac electrophysiologist who did an ablation. Basically, put an electric wire up through the femoral artery to the problem and zapping it with an electrical current which shorted it out, much like if you would stick a wire or key into an electrical outlet. It cured him, but up until that point, he was having to stay on medication to control his heart beat so they wouldnt go out of control.
Hey Board Nazi, give it a rest already!
I just took 10 minutes to write a supportive response to this lady for nothing apparently. Just because a topic leads to a heated discussion, we do not need you to quickly take it down. We are all adults here. At least make it clear to all those on the board that we are going talk about what the moderator wants to and that is it.
Rest easy. Aborting is not murder.
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tooo funny - God rest their souls!...
+RIP
By the 4th day, I would be too sore to continue the rest of the week...
LOL
Hopefully this child can finally rest in peace....
You know it has to be the Anthony girl.
Oh sweetheart, give it a rest already..we know how perfect you are..
we heard your opinion honey, go back to work now.
Sounds like a scam. Crap like that costs the rest of us
Ridiculous.
Absolutely!!! Get a room already and stop boring the rest of us!
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This is a free country, be a doormat for the rest of your life
if you want. You are the same one who writes husband left you after cesarean section, had vehicle accident and he was no help to you, told you he was never happy with you?? What kind of life do you think your children see you having? A good one? Doubt that. I really do not know why you post because giving a person who does not care for me 1 more chance is just idiotic to say the least. You can throw your life away as well as the children. Not this lady. I actually could thank my mother for leaving my father. I visited him, called him, cared for him as much as possible prior to his death in his 90s, loved my stepmom, went to see them often but he certainly as far as I could tell, not father material. Too critical, overbearing and someone I would not have been happy around. She did us kids a really big favor. I have not always had a wonderful life and probably went through a lot more than most but in my golden years I seem to have about everything I could have ever imagined. Life for me is wonderful but then each and every person has the right to make their own decisions and lives and lead a miserable one if they want.
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