My stepfather is a big jerk too (sm)
Posted By: NCMT on 2007-11-09
In Reply to: Am I over-reacting here?? - MT in MT
When I go visit my family we stay in a hotel and visit back and forth with them. That way I don't care if I feel unwelcome and I still get to see my mother and other relatives, and if he starts acting jerky, I have somewhere else to go.
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Good for you! I had to stand up to my stepfather (sm)
When I was about 15 or 16 - threatened to burn him with the iron I was using once. He decided to leave me alone from then on. The ones who are mean to children are really just cowards much of the time. Never hit my kids and don't need to.
My mother chose my stepfather over her kids
I have been in the same situation for the last 20 years. My mother figures she only sees us once in a while, so she would rather not be alone the rest of the time. I know how much it hurts to not feel welcome in your mother's house. It shouldn't be that way.
Neither. Not seen dad in the 21st Century, but did see mom to meet my stepfather. sm
They were very young when I was born, only 16 and 19. I have a younger brother who is gay and they have both pushed him away too, though mom a bit less. They were very controlling, highly critical and verbally abusive. The only thing I regret about the lack of relationship is that they managed to drive a wedge between my brother and I. I would thrilled to see him and build a new, grown up relationship, but they have made that impossible.
And for the record...I didn't see either of my parents for about 10 yrs and then decided to try again in my late 30s and early 40s. It proved fruitless. They were more angry, more belittling and just as abusive as ever. I tried, but then again I have changed and I no longer need that sort of negativity in my life.
How About "I'm not a jerk."
Then, it turns out he is the biggest jerk you've been out with so far??
I miss being married. Dating just sucks!
What a jerk! sm
You give yourself a treat with a new do, pedicure, manicure, and get right back out there.
Be active in your community, join a hobby group, volunteer, whatever... you will meet someone and it will be someone that is WORTH YOUR ATTENTION! This jerk is not worth getting upset over.
Ugly is on the inside and he is F-UGLY! Good thing you won't be seeing him again.
Jerk.
That's all I have to say about that.
Jerk doctor
Even with the shot you can still get chickenpox. Hopefully he gets through it okay without any complications. *hugs*
The store is being a jerk.
They said that they could have charged me 1000 and are being nice. I'm talking with the probation officer today to see what he knows about this.
he sounds like a jerk to me
Sounds like he should've married Bree VanDecamp-Hodge from Desperate Housewives--a fictional character!
I wouldn't stick around to find out what's he doing on the road. I would, however, check that cell phone bill, etc., to see what he's doing, then prepare yourself. If you don't stay with him (not sure why you'd want to), just get all your paperwork ready (keep it anywhere but in that house), and start thinking about YOUR future. Not being mean, just being honest. Life isn't sugar-coated, and from what I read, neither is he.
Gook luck to ya.
What a jerk, Crankybeach!
Well, I'm sure that's a decision (marrying him) she'll live to regret. If he did it once......
Jerk doctor, I agree
That was inconsiderate and unprofessional of the doctor's office not to call and remind you of the appointment, as 6 month appointments in advance are hard to remember. And the doctor was a jerk in treating you like that by being sarcastic.
It's weird, doctors raise a fit if our transcription isn't perfect and turn around and scold you about how you raise your kid.
I have had scarlet fever as a child as well as chickenpox and I'm still here and healthy so don't despair. Husbands just don't understand, just b/c we're at home all day doesn't mean we're not working. Hang in there. 
What is a 'suck jerk'? Am I missing something?
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happy gilmore, all of me, and the JERK
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I think what a passive/aggressive manipulative jerk!.
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Hubby's friend is a jerk - period!
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God bless you,. what a jerk doctor with Kelcie...nm
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Darn nice guy! Unless it was his girlfriend, then a jerk:) Good for you! nm
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"selfish jerk", as you call him, AGREED to help, DESPITE his plans.
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Don't be a jerk. Most of us were lucky enough to be born into English speaking families.
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