My husband is usually pretty good but once in a while sm
Posted By: Okie MT on 2007-10-29
In Reply to: Maybe someone could shed some light on this marriage thing. sm - wife
he will forget and talk to me in a disrespectful way. When that happens, I sit him right down and say, "NOBODY talks to me that way, not even you." He knows I am serious. I once quit a job over the way the boss treated me and talked to me.
Because your husband has been getting away with this for a long time, it is going to be difficult to "retrain" him, so to speak. You will have to be firm, even sometimes to the point where you may feel like you are nagging.
The key is to stay very calm and matter-of-fact. Don't show any anger (even if you are boiling over with it) and don't let him draw you into an argument. Simply say, "I will be treated with respect. I will not allow anyone to speak to me in that tone of voice or to say those things to me. I treat you with respect, and I expect the same in return."
Good luck. I wish you all the best.
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Yep. I actually did pretty good with (sm)
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That's was pretty good . . similar to the SM
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This is a good link. It pretty
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I'm hungry and that sounds pretty good right now...
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Yep. I'm pretty good with the pill-giving
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Payless has very good, pretty shoes!
But I doubt that they have them in 'supersizes' for M?
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Small dogs can usually do pretty good as opposed to
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Good grief - I hope not!!! Mine was not pretty! nm
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I used Debt Free Today. Pretty good
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You are living together and so you've got a pretty good idea
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Move on. There are way better men out there.
I dunno..Mel looked pretty good in Braveheart!! NM
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I was in Macy's recently, the INC line is pretty good quality, I think.
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My husband is doing a good job sm
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So the carpet will fix Mr. Not-So-Particular! ROFL He will probably get a chair pad then because carpet makes the chair harder to roll. 
ha! Was he a good ex-husband? (nm)
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Married good friend of my deceased husband
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your husband was a bad boy! Enjoy your well -earned, good days!...nm
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Does your husband or significant other do this? Just now, at 7:30, my husband came home from sm
playing sports with a friend. After showering he comes downstairs naked and tries to start a conversation with me. My "office" is in the living room and he is standing in back of the couch so I can't see any private parts, just him without his shirt, but I can see enough to know he clearly is naked! I think he wants me to be amused or get turned on or something, but I'm not amused one bit. In fact, I keep working and basically ignore him.
Poor guy. I swear he thinks he's Vince Vaughn or something. I should at least smile at him but all I want to tell him is to put some clothes on! ugh!
that is a pretty big
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I like that name that's pretty
Have others over, pretty soon will not have
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Pretty much....
The thing is, it's not guaranteed either. It "may" prevent you from getting HPV. The thing is, with regular paps, you can prevent/detect/treat just the same. I just don't feel they have done enough research on this vaccine to have released it and a lot of the severe side effects that have been experienced are really troubling. I know there are side effects with everything but there seems to be an abundance of really severe side effects and some girls have died from it. Also, from what I ready, it is only good for 5 years. They are now saying young women (ages 24 to something, can't remember if it was 35 or 36) should also look into taking it. I would just prefer to stick to my yearly paps as I know they are not going to cause any side effects. Also, as another person stated, we don't know what kind of effects these will produce down the road. It's just scary that they will come up with something, only test it for 6 months, release it and expect it to be made mandatory for girls of certain ages, and without really knowing if there are any long-term effects. Anyway, sorry for rambling. :)
Pretty dog! nm
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Fox is so pretty!!! sm
I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. I think it's wonderful that you posted this information for others to read. I had never heard of dogs tracheas collapsing, so this was new info I learned. Thank you for sharing.
Pretty cat! (sm)
The Christmas packages without bows reminded me of my cat, Flannel, who had a bow fetish. I could never leave wrapped presents around once bows were on because Flannel would sneak in and pierce every bow with her teeth. I saw her do it the first couple of times and she'd close her eyes and chomp with a look of ecstacy. She was a freak. 
Pretty?!?
..She looks like a he-she - she looks manish with a strong jaw. I really don't see where people are calling her pretty.
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Yep, that's pretty much what I think, too.
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I'm pretty sure....
the Total Pay card is not affiliated with a bank. It used to be affiliated with US Bank, get 2 free tell withdrawals a month and 2 free ATM withdrawals a month, but they no longer are affiliated with them that I know of. You could probably Google it and find out. I know my friend had one and she could actually put money on it, despite her pay being direct deposited on it. I could never put money on mine, except for the direct deposit of my pay.
Pretty name : )
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Ooooh pretty!
Yeah, it is pretty bad, when you
pull out your Stedman's and there's a dust bunny on it larger than the cat! lol
Googling, googling, googling....... away!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 
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all of those plants are pretty well known -
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Well said!!! Pretty much sums it up.
I wish more people in the world thought like you. It would be a much better place. =)
Maks is pretty hot too - at least he's
still around.
Feel pretty much the same way
I don't get why people just believe the whole god/bible thing. People tell me it's faith, which is great for them. However, I'm more of a science based, believe it when I see it type of person. The bible to me is just a big book full of fictional stories without fact that people have been brain washed for years into believing. I'm not one to just believe things blindly without questioning, and that's my big problem with religion/faith/god/whatever. In my opinion, it's quite silly to just believe it because someone told you to. People don't normally do that with anything else, but for some reason they will do that when it comes to god. Don't get me wrong, I don't think they are bad for it, I just really don't get it.
I think Kaitlin is pretty. NM
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Pretty Woman nm
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Fox's is getting pretty ragged
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Pretty sure he's done that too - no proof (sm)
He admitted it once but then took it back immediately and denied it from then on. So are you still with your husband?
Now THAT's pretty funny--
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It is pretty individual sm
I had the same August 29 of last year. I was working on my second day home (not a full shift, but a couple of hours), taking all my vitamins, water and food with no problems since day one and following all of my doctor's orders. I had minor pain, but mostly relieved with Tylenol after three days or so.
Then I see people who said they couldn't work for six weeks, even at a desk job, couldn't eat a thing and went to the hospital after four days for dehydration because they couldn't stomach more than five ounces of water a day.
Good luck and speedy recovery.
Pretty calico!
She looks like a queen to me ... if she wants to march across the counter tops, what are you gonna do?? hehehehe
Admit it...pretty!
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...NM up there. I'm pretty much collected out now, though. Got
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That's a pretty dog and I'm sorry you got bashed
I know there's zillions of folks that think all dogs and kids should run free doing whatever they darn please 24/7, and they all seemed to have jumped all over you. But I say, thank you for not being one of those people and training your dog - and loving him too!
No...actually he was pretty neglected...
and we were young when we met. He had never recalled being hugged by his mother, no story times... He didn't even know his ABCs and he was 14...The woman left these kids, ages 8 and 4 to live ALONE, while she lived across the street with her boyfriend...Neighbors would drop off food on the doorstep, but no one called social services back then. This woman is a class act. I loved my ex deeply and nurtured him even as a teen and he treated me like a mother figure at times...He still keeps in touch with me and we are close, as we did bond young in life and he had a horrible life.
What a pretty baby....sm
Glad Buck got to spend time with you, even for a little while...He was a real beaut. Cat
No, but Heather is a pretty name. NM
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Pretty in Pink
Iona: Does he have strong lips?
Andie: How can you tell?
Iona: Did you feel it in your knees?
Andie: I felt it everywhere.
Iona: Strong lips.
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