My dad....sm

My mom and dad divorced this year.  It has been about 6 months now.  My dad has really been a pain.  He has a girlfriend who was cheating with before the divorce.  He will not leave my mom alone.  I try to be nice to him and be there for him because he is my dad.  He persisently calls my mom and when she won't answer the phone then he keeps calling me.  He says why won't she answer the phone?  I am like well I guess she does not want to talk to you.  Well my aunt died who is my mom's brother's wife.  He was going to the funeral today, and his sport jacket or blazer or whatever you call it, anyway the button came off.  So he keeps calling my mom and was going to ask her to sew it back on.  Well she didn't answer his calls because a lot of times he is an a$$ when he calls her.  So she didn't want to hear it today.  Well me and my husband were sleeping in.  My dad called our house all morning because my mom wouldn't answer the phone.  He knows we were sleeping in cause he knows we do that.  He kept calling.  So finally my husband said answer the phone.  I answered, and I knew right away he was in one of his rages.  He said where is your mama?  I said I don't know I haven't talked to her today.  So he proceeds to tell me he needs her to sew his button on and she won't answer the phone.  He said call her and see if you can find out where she is.  I said ok.  So I call mama and said have you talked to daddy?  She said nope and I am not going to.  She said he has called my cell phone all morning and I am not answering it because I am not in the mood to hear him today.  I said ok and we hung up.  Well daddy calls me back and says did you get her?  I said yes she is on her way to the funeral home for the funeral.  He went into this rage and said well what the he** is she doing going now?  It doesn't start for another hour.  I said I guess to be with the family and the viewing.  He said that son of a bi** needs her a$$ beat!  I was outraged.  It really ticked me off.  He went on to cussing my mom.  I hung up on him.  I started to call him back and tell him off, but I didn't.  He continued to call me 3 more times in which neither time did I answer the phone.  I said I will not talk to him if he wants to talk like that.  Then I look out the window he is parked outside looking at my house.  I said if he knocks I am not answering it.  He didn't come to the door and left.  I have had it with this man.  He is crazy.  Absolutely crazy! 

Anyone ever had a dad behave this way?  What should I do? 

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