My MIL DEFINATELY.....
Posted By: ....... on 2009-06-15
In Reply to: MIL or mother snooping - sm
WOULD snoop! She is so nosey, it drives me insane! She also talks about EVERYBODY. They have a big family and she is always talking about people and such, but everyone overlooks her. When my husband and I first got married, years ago, we had just moved back into town and we stayed with her for a short time while looking for a house. My MIL would actually OPEN my mail and my husband's mail and always say she thought it was hers! A lot of my mail had my maiden name on it, because we hadn't been married long, but she STILL acted like it was a total mistake to open and READ my mail. I would be furious!
She also starts fights between my husband and one of his brothers. She likes the attention of it, and they don't have the best relationship anyways, so she STARTS an argument between them by using the "he said/she said" thing and then she whines continuously saying......."ohhhhh I hope before I die my two sons will be brothers again". This has happened like at least FIVE times in the past 5 years! The last time she went to whining at me about it, I told her they are both grown men, let them handle their own differences and issues and we should ALL just stay out of it. She doesn't like that answer though, she likes the drama of it all.
Okay, I think I went wayyyyyyy beyond the question here, LOL, I didn't realize I needed to rant for a minute.
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My MIL DEFINATELY.....
WOULD snoop! She is so nosey, it drives me insane! She also talks about EVERYBODY. They have a big family and she is always talking about people and such, but everyone overlooks her. When my husband and I first got married, years ago, we had just moved back into town and we stayed with her for a short time while looking for a house. My MIL would actually OPEN my mail and my husband's mail and always say she thought it was hers! A lot of my mail had my maiden name on it, because we hadn't been married long, but she STILL acted like it was a total mistake to open and READ my mail. I would be furious!
She also starts fights between my husband and one of his brothers. She likes the attention of it, and they don't have the best relationship anyways, so she STARTS an argument between them by using the "he said/she said" thing and then she whines continuously saying......."ohhhhh I hope before I die my two sons will be brothers again". This has happened like at least FIVE times in the past 5 years! The last time she went to whining at me about it, I told her they are both grown men, let them handle their own differences and issues and we should ALL just stay out of it. She doesn't like that answer though, she likes the drama of it all.
Okay, I think I went wayyyyyyy beyond the question here, LOL, I didn't realize I needed to rant for a minute.
MIL definately not--
mother..always did from day one, and still continues to every chance she gets. she is 81 now and still has to stick her nose into everything I do and do not do. She even tries to tell me when to work and when not to work. Sick of it.
My MIL DEFINATELY.....
WOULD snoop! She is so nosey, it drives me insane! She also talks about EVERYBODY. They have a big family and she is always talking about people and such, but everyone overlooks her. When my husband and I first got married, years ago, we had just moved back into town and we stayed with her for a short time while looking for a house. My MIL would actually OPEN my mail and my husband's mail and always say she thought it was hers! A lot of my mail had my maiden name on it, because we hadn't been married long, but she STILL acted like it was a total mistake to open and READ my mail. I would be furious!
She also starts fights between my husband and one of his brothers. She likes the attention of it, and they don't have the best relationship anyways, so she STARTS an argument between them by using the "he said/she said" thing and then she whines continuously saying......."ohhhhh I hope before I die my two sons will be brothers again". This has happened like at least FIVE times in the past 5 years! The last time she went to whining at me about it, I told her they are both grown men, let them handle their own differences and issues and we should ALL just stay out of it. She doesn't like that answer though, she likes the drama of it all.
Okay, I think I went wayyyyyyy beyond the question here, LOL, I didn't realize I needed to rant for a minute.
I definately do not consider myself a follower but
to not let myself get upset by the blandness, rigidity, mass ideations of others. Vanilla is NOT my fave flavor of ice cream, lol.
I would not accuse him, but I would definately look into it.
This is not something I could ignore, but I would try to remain calm and not cause a big fight over it.
Definately my choice would be Oprah!
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