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I need opinions on an extremely akward thing that just happened to me while at the store.......I think a store employee made a comment to me that is classified as sexual harassment. I feel sick over the whole thing. Please help me figure this out as I need some good advice right now.

To make a very long, ackward story short.......My 2 children finally went to sleep this evening and hubby was watching football. I needed a few things at the store so I decided to run out. (Hubby is never happy about late night shopping adventures because of the crazy world we live in, but he knows that I enjoy the quiet time so he tries to not worry much.) Anyways, I went to a very popular department store (open 24-hours and is still very busy no matter what hour) and I returned a bra that did not fit me at the service desk. The mid-twenties young man seemed normal and returned my money to me without any problems. I then shopped and decided I was ready to go, so I took my purchases to the regular check-out counter where a young lady checked me out. Then this young man (an employee) walked over to me and said "hey, did you find one that fits?" I was a little confused at first and I looked at him like I didn't know what he was talking about. He then proceded to say "the service desk, your return..." OH- This guy was the one who was behind the service desk when I made the bra return. Why in the world is this weirdo worried about whether or not I was able to find a bra that fits. (I am probably close to the same age as this guy, I am well-endowed, yet I do not flaunt it. Even if I was wearing a low-cut shirt (which I was not) I feel very strongly about the fact that it was inappropriate for him to be asking a question pertaining to my breasts! Please correct me if I am wrong for thinking this way!!!!????)

I walked out of there feeling pretty sick about that comment. I sat down in my car for a second and decided that I should probably report it. I called and asked to speak to the manager on duty and this guy said that he was an assistant manager. I explained the situation to him and explained to him that I did not have the name of the guy but I could semi-describe him and this guy started sounding very shakey and said "I am very sorry ma'am, I am the one who said that. I think you are pretty and maybe I was being over friendly to you. I can take care of this issue for you. I am very sorry I said that. I don't want to get in trouble. I will take down your information." I said "No, that is okay. I would prefer to give that infomation to the Store Manager tomorrow when I call back to discuss this incident with her/him." I cannot believe this guy actually thought I would leave further details with him! Like he would really forward them to the appropriate person and get himself in trouble!  

So, I need advice about this. Hubby was sound asleep when I got home and I'm going to wait til tomorrow to tell him as I am sure that he would go out there tonight to "talk" to the guy! I will try to wait to tell him anyways, it is really kinda bothering me and I feel like I need his comfort.

My hope is that someone on here might have some advice. Hopefully your advice and understanding will give me the answers and comfort that I need tonight so that I can get over this ackward feeling until I can atleast talk to hubby about it and contact the store manager about it.

Thanks so much. :)