Marital Bliss
Posted By: Regina Hare on 2007-03-23
In Reply to: Anyone know what something I can make up - for not getting pregnant
Please don't lie to your husband. You have a few children and if you don't want anymore, tell him so. It's not like you don't have any. If he does not understand your honesty and appreciate it then maybe you have made the wrong choice in a husband. A marriage built on lies is doomed for failure. Imagine how hurt you would feel if he lied to you about something that was important to you -- like being faithful. I was in your situation and I told him the truth. If he could accept it fine, if not, he was free to move on. There are certain things you just cannot compromise on to make someone else happy. Talk to him.
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Sometimes ignorance IS bliss....lol
They have no idea. But good for you!
Trust my daughter to the fullest.. your post speaks volumes of ignorance is bliss. sm
It is not like I make a huge banner on the wall for goodness sakes! I put a small V on the corner of the date on the calander. I trust my daughter completely and do this for health concerns only. I have a miserable health history and was always thankful my mother was on top of things. We always had great communication about everything and I have done that with my own daughters. We talk about everything into the wee hours of the morning. I am not knocking your way doing things..so please dont knock mine. I feel it is better to be on top of things than to be ignorant of my daughters health..and yes menstrual cycles are part of her health history. What would I say at the docs office when asked about her cycles..Umm I dont know. Better go ask the 12 y/o because her mom doesnt know! I dont think so.
marital introitus
I have heard this (on rare occasions) in the past few years. First time I couldn't believe my ears. confinement - reminds you of when you read a book about the old days and pregnancy is regarded as an illness, and the woman is mostly confined to the home!
Sorry, you are wrong about her marital status
She is a single person, living with her parents. I did not get my information from CNN. I do not think she should have any fertility drugs at all- 6 kids is enough for anyone.
I would not lie about my marital status. I would tell anyone who is bold-faced enough to ask
that,"I am single because I choose to be, and am very happy, thank you."
Is this normal - marital seperation question (sm)
Husband and I have argued terribly over the years, been to several marriage counselors, etc. Lately the arguing had gotten much worse and we could barely be around each other 5 minutes without an argument starting. Now we have both concluded that we should seperate and have been working on a seperation agreement. Each of us once in a while has a thought that maybe we should try to work things out but then we remember how many times we have tried to do that and we know we would just be prolonging the inevitable. So now we are actually getting along better while planning a seperation than we have during our marriage. We do have children and we are both thinking of their wellbeing first and foremost. Is it possible that we could actually both be relieved at the thought of seperating and that we may be able to be good friends after the divorce? (How amazing would that be? I keep asking myself!)
Did you ever wonder what terminology was used to describe an introitus that wasn't so marital???
I'll probably get banned for this..."whorital introitus" or "premarital introitus"?
Sorry I'm so hap slappy, I worked all night and am getting ready to go to bed. Good mornin!
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