Like all four remaining guys . . .

• American Idol - Kimmie
  • The voting went exactly (sm) - Z
    • I like all the same ones you do - just me
  • Like all four remaining guys . . . - Roly Poly
  • AI - ER MT
    • David Cook/David Archuleta - LinK
      • Am. Idol - sugarbaby
        • Yes! I turned the volume way down . . - Roly Poly
        • Dolly Parton - mb
        • I didnt see last night's show but SM - ER MT
          • I think once you have the first - Z

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wonderful responses and so quickly.  I hope we can keep this thread going to help each other out.  I wrote down these ideas and am going to start implementing many of them right away.  Here are some of my ideas:

1.  Utilities - We had 2 cell phones, got rid of one, which was mine, and I hardly ever used it.  My husband has to have his because we run our own business.  We had 2 house lines, one for our house phone and one for a fax machine.  We got rid of one line, and kept the fax line, converting it to accept phone calls as well as faxes. 

2. We heat our house with corn which in Northwest Indiana is a pretty cheap way to go.  It will cost us approximatey $600.00 to heat our 2600 sq ft house for the winter.  We would normally pay almost $450.00 a month with our heat and electric if we paid or electric company who has a monopoly in this area; no where else to go. :-(

3.  I used to throw a load or two of laundry in every day, no matter how big the load (I have an energy efficient washer), to save time and so the laundry did not pile up.  However, I realized that I was wasting soap, softner, and water even though I have an energy efficient washer.  So, I am doing laundry only 2 days a week, maybe three if need be.  Washing bigger loads at a time.

4.  In regards to above, I use my dryer as a time management issue, because I run the office of our business during the day and transcribe at night.  I think I will implement hanging my clothes out next summer, because I do not think it would be efficent in the winter right now - - would it?

5.  I buy all snack foods at Aldi's.  You save $1.00 to $1.50 an item.  I shop at the most least expensive store in the area when possible, only shopping at the higher-priced stores if there is a sale.

6.  Turn off lights, computer, etc., when not in use.

7.  I buy my cleaning supplies and laundry supplies at our area dollar store.  They carry name-brand items as well as generic-brand, but quite a bit cheaper.

I am brain dead now.  I am sure there are many more.

Please keep them coming.  There were many things that you guys mentioned that I never even thought of, and I am sure we can give each other good ideas to implement.  I feel we are in a war here, and we need all the ammunition we can get as we carry out our role as our home managers :-)

We really appreciate the support.

I wanted to share a picture of Chewy with you . . . I had wanted to get a picture of the five of them, all lined up getting treats from Daddy, heads turning in unison watching his every move . . .

this place and the ability to vent and have you guys listen unconditionally.  And thank you for being so kind with your advice.  I know what I did wasn't good and almost immediately regretted it.  But you all are right, what's done is done, and I should just focus on my family and friends who do want to be part of our lives. 

Just a followup, in case everyone was wondering about reaction to my email, I've received two responses.  One from a daughter-in-law of my FIL's wife who offered her ear and her prayers and also told me that she has always wanted to say the same things.  The other response I received was basically "shame on you for airing your dirty laundry" and told me I sounded like a bitter disturbed person which I guess I am.   For right now anyway.

Thanks again, you guys are the best!

about the alert and info on the 9-month-old?  People just blow my mind with some of the things they pull these days!!!

So I've got this thingy set up to "alert" me whenever my "handle" comes up or the name of the company I work for--and it shows this wacked thread!  

I'd love to see a woman in the White House as well, but definitely not the one currently running.  There's something about her that just rubs me.  Oh yeah, the fact that she's still married to that dickhead for starters. 

I'd vote for Ellen DeGeneres...female, gay (really frost the republicans behinds!)...and most important....A FRIGGIN RIOT!   I'd love to believe that the world's problems could be solved with humor.  It'd be fun to see her give it a shot though.  Jon Stewart would make a great vice president.

If I were president, the White House would have a petting zoo, the rose garden would also have petunias in it, macaroni and cheese would occupy at least 1/4 of the food pyramid.  Camp David would be open to the general public.  All UFO information would be declassified.  Political correctness would be outlawed and greenbud would be legal.  Lastly, public schools would have classes on manners, school uniforms, and corporal punishment...but I guess that goes back to my pervy private fantasies again.... 

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How come a guy can waltz in and land the high-paying job without a degree, yet the woman has to have the proof of degree in hand, the multiple references (which with us are ALWAYS checked--men hardly ever), and the johnny-on-the-spot answers to such stupid-ass questions as, "If you were a tree, what kind of tree would you be?"  ...all for a job (whether it's this field or whatever) with crappy benefits and crappy pay and even crappier treatment when you want time to also do the most noble thing of all and be a mother. 

I felt 100% better after I vented that.  I wish I would have stopped myself sooner, but I'm glad I stopped at least when I did.  There were a lot of comments I would have liked to have made to that woman and didn't. 

As for winning and losing, yes I was irritated and yes it was selfish of me to want my kids to win that one (I guess that means I'm human).  But more than anything, I absolutely did not appreciate being talked to by her in that condescending manner.

I still do not like the woman and never will, but I will make sure the next game I will be as far away from her as possible and not to take it so seriously.  You guys are right and I thank you for the reality check.  My kids are still #1 to me and always will be no matter what the scoreboard says.

As an aside, I never put down any of the kids, on either team, but in retrospect, I think my behavior over the incident was a childish.  Gotta work on that!

In the kitchen - where you prep food and possibly eat?  How sanitary is that?

The bedroom isn't too bad, I guess, but isn't there anywhere else you can put the things?

And how many cats do you have that you need 4 litter boxes?

I sense a weird *cat lady* amongst us.

Excellent advice from all of you!  I'm running to the local hardware right now to get a sink-sized plunger.  Thanks!

A friend forwarded this to me.  A lot of things have been credited to Andy Rooney (CBS 60 Minutes) that he never said, so I won't swear to whether he said this or not.  If not, he probably wishes he had:

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As I grow in age, I value women over 40 most of all. Here are just a few reasons why:

A woman over 40 will never wake you in the middle of the night and ask, 'What are you thinking?' She doesn't care what you think.

If a woman over 40 doesn't want to watch the game, she doesn't sit around whining about it. She does something she wants to do, and it's usually more interesting.

Women over 40 are dignified. They seldom have a screaming match with you at the opera or in the middle of an expensive restaurant.. Of course, if you deserve it, they won't hesitate to shoot you if they think they can get away with it.

Older women are generous with praise, often undeserved. They know what it's like to be unappreciated.

Women get psychic as they age. You never have to confess your sins to a woman over 40.

Once you get past a wrinkle or two, a woman over 40 is far sexier than her younger counterpart.

Older women are forthright and honest. They'll tell you right off if you are a jerk, if you are acting like one. You don't ever have to wonder where you stand with her.

Yes, we praise women over 40 for a multitude of reasons. Unfortunately, it's not reciprocal. For every stunning, smart, well-coiffed, hot woman over 40, there is a bald, paunchy relic in yellow pants making a fool of himself with some 22-year old waitress. Ladies, I apologize.

For all those men who say, 'Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free? Here's an update for you. Nowadays 80% of women are against marriage. Why? Because women realize it's not worth buying an entire pig just to get a little sausage!