Letting person finish sentence
Posted By: All the above just does not relate to men on 2007-09-06
In Reply to: not all of them - DaniP
My hubs has called it to my attention several times that I do this to him. I really love, admire and cherish him and I am glad he has not given up on me like some of the above state. It is not done intentionally but I think sometime he sorta stammers and huh, huh it 1 time too much and then here I rush in. Oh, well I am an Aries and I want things done yesterday!
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let me finish your message... I'm in...
my own closed little mind.
I said I THOUGHT about it. Can one THINK? Can one express themselves about what THINKS but may not DO without being critized?
Finish this story.
Two young kids fall in love at 17. However, the girl being from a strict European upbringing was pressured by her parents to marry into the same culture. So the girl meets another boy in her European country and because of her parents' influence allows herself to be wooed by this new boy and eventually marries him after breaking up with the first boy. The girl does all she is supposed to do to make her family happy and embarks on her new life with her new husband. However, she never really felt happy, but just resigned herself to her life. Eventually had two children and they became the center of her world. Fast forward 25 years - the girl is contacted by the first boy from her youth and they reconnect realizing that they still have feelings for each other. The girl is forced to confront the fact that she never really loved her husband and still loves that first boy. She and the first boy decided to see each other to make sure they are not still holding on to their feelings of youth. They meet and they realize they their connection is stronger than ever. They are both married to different people and don't want to hurt anyone, but they cannot deny their feelings.
How would you end this story?
Ooops, to finish above - just like the suits.
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Finish from above: As they jump off the cliff.
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Sorry you couldn't follow me. I have work to finish up. Have a nice day. nm
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I thought I was the only one! I hate to finish a good book and sometimes stall sm
just to prolong it because I will miss the characters. Isn't that crazy? I read a lot, at least a book or two a week, so if I find a good author, I get really involved.
Have you read the Janet Evanovich books with Stephanie Plum? I love them but they come out a year apart and I wish they were a weekly tv show!
Suggestion for cleaning chrome faucets in bathtub that does not hurt the finish of them but
removes water spots.
Thank you for letting us
know the child survived. I didn't want to look up the story.
The initial post should have not only put the post in the message but also don't just drop a bomb like that and then walk away.
letting go
I am so excited for your son. What an awesome opportunity.
My daughter is a bit younger and she had an opportunity to go to Central America (which is closer and safer I know) for the summer on a mission trip. I received a LOT of negative feedback from family and friends for letting her go, especially since she is under 16, but she had an opportunity to be part of something bigger than her "what do I wear today" kind of life. She loves God and feels called to the mission field and I am sure this summer was her first of many trips.
I know it will be a real stretch for you as a parent, as it was me, but I had to trust that she belongs to God before me and God could keep her safer than I could. She loved it and grew as a person and as a Christian.
Hope that helps. I will be praying for your family.
Thank you for letting me know - NM
NM
Calling when going somewhere and letting you know
she arrived safely is one thing. Teaching a child that forgetting something once in a while is some horrible thing is another story all together. We ALL, and I do mean ALL, forget things from time to time. I don't care how many lists you make, how organized you are or anything else, we all forget things. It may be a coat, something on our list that we made or somebody's birthday, but we ALL forget things. My children did learn from their mistakes but, once again, not from cruelty, but simply because it was a life lesson. They are both wonderful you adults who work full time jobs and are responsible people. While they had guidelines and rules to follow and knew and reaped the consequences of not following the rules set before them, we did not rule with an iron thumb. We knew they were human and would make mistakes along the way and learn from them. Sorry this was so long, but this type of treatment of children really makes me sad. I wanted my children to know that I loved them more than I wanted to rule them. They still respect me and I talk to both of them several times a week and have a wonderful relationship. 
This is all about forgiveness and letting go
Obviously your husband has some deep hurts and a lot of anger. Forgiveness is the key. I know it's a lot easier said than done but it benefits the person doing the forgiving, not the "forgivee". It doesn't mean he is condoning what was done to him. Maybe the stepfather is doing the best he knows how, who knows. We all have our issues. Your husband does need to work on his anger and not bring the kids into it though. Prayers for your hubby and your family. 
Also if you stay away you are letting him win(sm)
As that seems to be his goal -I would not let him keep me from seeing the rest of my family. However, I also would not want my children exposed to his mouth, so if you cannot stay in a hotel,I would go and visit without your children, which I do sometimes as well. I see my family about twice a year, usually once by myself and once with the kids, at which time we stay in a hotel.
Appreciate your letting us know - mine is scheduled
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I'm not letting my kids get a real
tattoo. If they decide they want a tattoo, it will have to wait until they're 18 and pay for it themselves. I said they are saving for the airbrush tattoos at the beach. They wear off after about 6 weeks and there's no permanent damage, no needles, just airbrush.
I think sometimes parents don't choose their battles wisely and that causes more problems than the issue itself.
I'm sure he says those things while you're letting
It's not a mistake if you plan on letting him
do that every night. Believe me I know. We've had several dogs over the years and every single time we've given in and let them on the furniture or bed just one time - they take it as a sign that they are welcome there all the time. Now we have 3 LARGE dogs who think they need to sleep in our bed every night. :)
And you last sentence, it says
sounds like they made a choice, seizures or a child that was medicated past the point of functining and enjoying life- his death certificate listed seizure as the cause of his death- think about that.
Your sentence is a little off
Kennedy did not breed the dog but rather had the dog at his home for awhile getting some training through one of his dog trainer. Kennedy not in the dog breeding program. He owns several of these dogs, in fact I heard 1 first alerted Kennedy's family when Kennedy had a seizure away from the home so very small doggies I would say.
In my opinion - your first mistake is letting your son live with her sm
and you having "no say about it". Huh! You are his mother aren't you?
Not trying to be rude, I most certainly would not have any of my kids living with an "ex- anything" and only living with me. 15 and the teens for that matter are very tender ages and need their parents guidance in all aspects of their lives.
I have a 15 year old and 17 year old, both very athletic, and neither would live with a family member or ex-family member just for a sport.
Believe it or not - sports are not everything, but academic achieves are. We are in the hunt for colleges as my 17 y/o is a senior in high school. Guess what, they don't care if they play sports - they want their GPA, rigor of their courses and their grades, as well as SAT scores. Even if a scholarship is offered, in my case, football, they still need to meet requirements.
So, I would re-think the teen's living arrangements if I were his mother.
Well...I am always nervous about letting my kids do things like that (sm)
But I usually let them do it. However, it would depend on the parents. I mean if the guy reeks of alcohol - how bad? Do you mean he drinks a beer or two on the weekends or is he a drunk? Will he be driving your son in a car or boat? If so, I would not be comfortable with that. I have said no at times if I am uncomfortable for a reason, but I always have to think it through and see if there is real danger or if I am just being me - a worry wart. I would find out if that dad is going, if he will be driving the car, if he will be driving a boat, etc. and make my decision from that.
hold on....letting adults paddle my kid?
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I am not letting my young teen marry an old man.
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I agree with letting him go...if there are no children involved (sm)
and you are still young, get out now while you can. Don't wait like I did. I was married to someone very similar for 15 years and finally separated, but now I am older and I have two children who rely on me. I would much rather have left him early on, found someone new, and have children with a stable home.
oops - sentence got cut off....nm
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Your sentence says it all, not overlooked by
all.......
Now the correct sentence for her would
have been 30 years.
What is wrong with our system??
Can you explain the sentence
I've be typing from home for a long time?
Explain my sentence...
I've typed from home since my 12-year-old was 2. Most of the time, he was right next to me. Then along came another. My hubby and I split days. He worked part-time and I worked part-time. We felt it better to not have the income and keep the children at home with us. My kids are 5 years apart. My son started school 1/2 day, so my working at home was great. Now, they are 12 and 7. I work at home full-time now and my hubby works full-time at his job. I am here for them, but they are in school all day. I am strictly an IC, so I adjust for whatever I need. I do not need the benefits, hubby has those. I do watch my children, but I have typed at home for 10 years now, and nothing too dramatic has suffered. Did I put my 7-year-old in preschool? Yes, I did. Did I have to jump up and down a lot? Yes, I did. Do I regret any minute of it? No, I do not.
How about the sentence I had to write
Actucally it was a paragraph and I still remember it. Guess I was in trouble a lot.
This year in the sixth grade I will practice self-control by being curtious and polite in the halls and on the playgound.
Each infraction was 25 times.
adding to the sentence above
Short ones if a normal YEPP. If just short. Nah.
Love it, especially that last sentence. :) nm
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Letting a child about Santa isn't lying, sheesh
Telling about Santa isn't lying, it's a rite of childhood for millions of kids, as is the Easter Bunny and the Tooth Fairy. I see no harm in giving my children hope in something so good as Santa. I don't remember being crushed as a child when I found out about Santa, I only remember the joy of waking up on Christmas morning to a full stocking and the anticipation of waiting for the big guy. We were so poor that I don't know how we ever had a Christmas but somehow there were always gifts from Santa, to me that's what he's about, not lying but believing.
People take really strange things far too literally, takes the fun out of the simple things in my opinion.
Are you a night person or a morning person?
Just curious . . .
A whole sentence is 'yelling'. A word or two is
There IS a difference.
Does this sentence make sense?
I'm trying to write a letter. what i want to say is that more time is needed in the basic classes at school and special classes such as (music, art) should not take priority or cut into the core classes.
This is my sentence
There is lack of adequate class time is the core classes such as math, language arts, and science. Specials are great to have but specials do not dominate academia.
Does that make sense to anyone but me?
Just read a new article on sentence
I didn't get a chance to read it, because I'm on my out, but the headline read they his sentence is now 33 years. My daughter said she heard they upped it. Not sure if it's true or not, but he certainly deserves it.
And the main word in your sentence is
mainly - as pets mainly on leashes- sometimes they are, sometimes they're not. Do your neighbors keep pitbulls also?
Never thought I would say chocolate and UGH in same sentence but
I have fibromyalgia and read in a recent magazine article that eating very dark chocolate with purity of about 70% actually helped fibro because of the medicinal qualities that cocoa beans have including antioxidants and flavonoids. Ok I got a bar that was extremely dark and had 80% purity and double UGH! The article said to eat a small amount each day but what is a small amount? Anyone else know anything about how much? By the way, read also the dark chocolate lowers blood sugar in diabetics.
This sentence in your post is worth to
remember and follow, I quote....
'So, see what you can do to learn to be your own best friend and company.'
Thanks, very wise.
One sentence in her post sounds exactly like -(sm)-
how AHDI could be described:
<< Most of our haters are people who are supposed to be on our side. >>
Someone putting that many demands on a gift is taking advantage of you, and you are letting them. nm
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oops part of my sentence got deleted
meant to say not much you can do....lol
Your last sentence sorta breaks my heart
I have grandchildren but they are so tied in with the maternal side, even though we live only perhaps 15 miles apart, never see or talk with them- I tried being close when they were younger but they were always, always at the other grandmoms home, never mine. I love them and wish them well.
Important: I disagree with this sentence in your post:
'If you and your brother get anything at all, I think you should be glad because you were only taking the place of your father....'
The grandfather did NOT name the father in the will, he cut him out and named his grand children as heirs.
So, she and her brother are LEGALLY NOT responsible for paying for their father's medical expenses.
Then read my sentence and if you disagree with this, lady, you have some problems...
--if you have female children they could be the next.-- You said you totally disagreed with my post and the above was in my post. I am a realistic person- not narrowed minded.
Ask to listen to a dictation. Any doctor who can't put two words together to make a sentence, I d
:P
It probably varies from person to person (sm)
With me, first child I was out of the bed seriously within 5 minutes of having him. I didn't tear or have to be cut, he was 7 pounds, 3 ounces. The doctor did some type of vaginal massage on me though while I was in labor and that was supposed to help loosen the vaginal wall?
Second child, same experience. She was 8 pounds, 1 ounce and within 5 minutes of having her, while they took her to the nursery to get cleaned up and all, I walked downstairs with my husband to the cafeteria to get a drink and stretch my legs. I had already put my regular clothes back on as well. My doctor who delivered her was walking in my room as I was walking in and he was stunned a second and said he thought I was a visitor, LOL, not the patient.
I don't think you have to have bed rest in normal cases. With my son I went home within 24 hours with him and with my daughter we went home in only 20 hours.
No, I am not that person...sm
Nor am I trying to be ugly...I think YOU come first in this situation. If not, you'll get in deep trouble with your health, then what? Your family needs you...take care of yourself, and make your husband pitch in...that's all I'm sayin'
Who is this person?
I have no clue who this person is.
I saw a person having 1 of those 1 day
and they could do like all the other people around, just ignored it. I was in a public building, guy down and frothing at the mouth, not a good scene but totally ignored.
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