Legally, he probably owes you more
Posted By: SM on 2006-12-18
In Reply to: I'd bring it up with him... - Talk to him
If you really wanted to be technical, legally it needs to be served doesn't it?
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This woman owes no one anything regarding the name
I went to my brother's child funeral (my niece) the other day. Brother killed in an accident when this child was 6, she died at 39, raised by stepfather for most of those 30+ years. My maternal aunt and I at funeral and yet the stepfather got up and referred to the deceased as his daughter- my aunt did not like that as basically erased her father from her life but things like this happen- this person can and should name her child whatever she wants. If the relationship is that tedious with only a name, then she does not need those kind of people in her life. Simple.
Our son owes us an apology?
He blames us for him quitting school and him working at a job for 6 years that he hated. He is 36-years-old. He refused to go to school and the fines we received for him not going to school cost hundreds of dollars. We made him pay those fines. But the whole point was he hated school, wanted to quit, but we thought if he worked a summer, he would go back. He made the choice not to go back to school even though we begged him to because with education, he would get better jobs, but to no avail. Now he is blaming us for ruining his life. "After all, I spent 6 years at a job I hated and I wasted my life."
He is now in a good job, but it really hurts that he thinks we are the ones that caused his problems. Now he's telling my husband, because there is no work for his occupation, that that's no excuse not to go and get a job somewhere else.
What is wrong with this picture? I am furious with him. I think he owes my husband an apology. What do you think?
I'm venting here because if I say anything to him right now, it will go in one ear and out the other. He is totally right all the time in his mind.
Ethics, she owes big time,
otherwise why the secret from her husband? Saving her own tail.
Must be he owes back taxes or is
wanted for some other crime that worse than $200,00 is good!
How about sister-in-law who owes big time
My brother had custody of his two children since they were babies. They are not nearly 30 years old but his ex was court ordered to pay child support and she is now in arrears to the tune of over 30K+.....just report their SS# to the IRS yourself so they won't get tax refunds EVER!!
I don't have a clue how much my brother owes
for his children, but at this point he will never catch up. My parents (who are defintely able to do this) payed my ex-SIL instead. My brother just says they are just giving them his inheritance. My parents bypassed him in their wills long ago and set up trust funds for his children. This is while he was still married. As soon as he finally got a job his ex let it be known and money is witheld from every paycheck. At least he is trying a little now and things are starting to look up, but.... I really hate it for all of those who don't have anyone else to step in and help and I really admire the ones that do it all on their own.
Yes, I do believe he owes you and your husband and apology.. sm
You don't say how old he was when he refused to go to school, but I'm guessing he was high-school aged. I have a son who is now almost 18 and getting him to go to school up until this last fall was a struggle. He is learning disabled and absolutely hated school, couldn't care less if the schoolhouse burned to the ground. Thankfully, I was able to get him into a work program this past fall which will satisfy his graduation requirements and he is very happy with it now. I wish you had had access to some kind of program when your son was in school. However, his choices were his own and he has to accept responsibility for them.
Dave is my Baby Daddy who owes $27K,
that's probably me calling....sorry.
Legally
I just signed the form and had it notarized so that she can get him into school....I don't know why everybody is thinking that I put him out.....If it makes him happy to live with his sister because she can provide more for him....I don't have a problem with that.....I have posted another message because asking for an opinion about my house key.....with signing this form to get into school.....she has the authority to get him into school where she lives in that school district....signing this form...if he gets sick or something she is authorized to pick him up from school and get medical treatment for him...this form is not giving her legal custody of him.....I really appreciate all of the posts...that's why I was asking someone else's opinion about my house key because my mom said that I was wrong in asking him to leave the key.
Legally, there is nothing you can do. You
might talk to her, but that probably wouldn't do anything. Moving is probably the only answer.
Not if they are legally living here or if
they have become citizens. That is why Carly could not compete 2 years ago when she made the top 24. Her paperwork had not yet gone through.
I believe that legally as long as anyone
pays on a medical bill consistently, even as low as $10 a month, there is nothing they can do.
Legally, yes, but how adult were you at 18? nm
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Legally they are his kids
DNA or not, they are legally Michael Jackson's children. His name is on the birth certificate and he has been their father for their entire lives. If a custody suit were to be brought about, I think anyone would have a hard time using that as a basis for the suit.
Plus, at this point the children are old enough to express opinions and to have those opinions taken into consideration by any type of family court judge. From what I understand, they have verbalized their desire to stay with their grandparents. I don't think anyone is going to be able to change that.
There must be something you can do legally, sole provider or not.
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& what part of *some of them didn't do it legally*....
Name changed legally in the courts and
the reason for the change, he tells me, is he always since a child did not like his given name and as adult, when he could afford, changed it in the courts. He thinks the only reason they are not calling the new (like I said, old name like Lewis and new name like Lou so it is just a shortened version) is just not respecting his wishes. He has told them before, not just this time. The entire name was changed but this is the catch, when he got the thank you note for the flowers sent for the funeral, they came in his newer name!! The person who died, his aunt, always sent him notes, cards, etc. in his new name so not everyone in his family not acknowledging, only the younger siblings actually (those being in the 40s,50s group). So your answer, not just at this funeral time and did because simply hated his name for years. In talking about your friend's name change, I see you emphazied if it MEANT that much to her, pray tell, why do you think someone might do otherwise (other than being in witness protection??) Another thing, just to let you know, his mother prior to her death knew, respected and called him his newer name.
18 IS legally considered an adult.
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Legally an 18 year old is an adult, so
therefore not a minor, however ethically a teacher should not be messing around with a student.
Buying a house with someone who is not legally your spouse, is
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