Jeeze Louise!

Posted By: sm on 2008-10-24
In Reply to: Help. I have made my own prison. Please make suggestions sm - Transcriptionist Mom

What are you guys spending this money on and how are you doing it without them knowing for so long to build up such a debt? What kind of debt are you talking, 5,000 or 100,000? I sneak my husband for 20 bucks occasionally for this or that, but if I want/need something, he is the first to buy it for me. What you should examine is what led you to this behavior in the first place. If you cannot afford something, don't buy it, but if you can afford it and your husband just does not want you to have it, hit the road. Keep in mind, that it is both of your money, not just his. You should immediately confront him with your bills and then work it out. This could be the best thing that ever happened to you. It sounds like the first diet you need to go on is to lose the weight of a full grown man on your back. You are an adult. You made your choices (good or bad) and it is too late now to lament. Life is too short to be so stressed out. Good luck to you.

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Help. I have made my own prison. Please make suggestions sm - Transcriptionist Mom
- Thank you all for your messages and suggestions sm - OP
- Jeeze Louise! - sm
  - I was not out buying designer clothes or stuff for myself - sm - relieved MT
- I just went thru something similar - sm - relieved MT
  - I am glad things are going well for you but sm - OP
    - Find a lawyer, find out where you would stand - sm - relieved MT
- You must be my twin because you just wrote - Silly Girl
- For your future and that of your kids - starstruck
- I'm not sure if this will work - but it might be worth - Cris
  - Think it through sm - starving artist
  - I did talk to a lawyer too before I dropped - sm - relieved MT
  - Thanks for your suggestions....I do need to get some (sm) - Transcriptionist mom
    - ...information. That heading just didn't look right....lol nm - Transcriptionist mom
      - at least you've still got a sense of humor - Cris
  - And start taking 1/2 hour walk every - Cris
- I thought I was the only one...sm - Been there and still am
  - I have a feeling there are lots of us out here - sm - NYMT
  - Good luck to you too - sorry you are in the same type of situation sm - Transcriptionist mom
- start by taking charge of your life in 1 small way - ...

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