It would just be more of the same.

• If your husband had a problem with your weight and (sm) - Butter and clutter
  • Hate to say it but he sounds like a clone - sm -
  • he sounds like a jerk to me - a happy MT
  • If they fell in love with us, as we were...sm - PammyB
  • ""Love Must Be Tough" -- written by (sm) - No Name
  • Sounds very much like he is unhappy with HIMSELF! - mandy
  • 1/2 the equity is not enough - mammamt
  • See a divorce attorney - Malia
  • ask yourself this question . . . sm - maam1
  • Wow. - Misha
    • good post Misha!!! And to OP, know you're a better - better Mom than his was not, probably!!..sm
      • Very silly question - I know but have to ask (sm) - Butter and clutter
        • No experience at all with this, just what I saw on a Dr. Phil one time - - mlt
        • not a silly question at all....sm - better Mom than his was not, probably!!..sm
          • Thank you so much - it's gone on so long (sm) - Butter and clutter
            • Did I mention he's a horrible person? - Misha
              • Good post again Misha.......no msg - LorenaBobbitt
            • you're welcome............sm - better Mom than his was not, probably!!..sm
    • That's good Misha - thanks :-) (nm) - Butter and clutter
  • Your weight problem may be due to your - bad marriage. Seek some psychiatric help.
    • In your shoes - siren
      • Pretty sure he's done that too - no proof (sm) - Butter and clutter
  • I'd tell him to hit the bricks sm - mlstoo
  • Sounds like he is a negative weight pulling you - down (sm)
  • Sounds like he's blaming everything that's wrong in HIS life - on you.
  • Your choices are to either be proactive and do something... - mtc
  • blatant emotional abuse - put him out
  • I think I would stay put if I were you. He knows where the - Wannie
    • bad marriage. don't live that way! - just me
    • I agree totally this this post, though I have never been married, - I do have a child. They should come first-sm
      • He refuses to do that. He says no way is he leaving (sm) - Butter and clutter
        • Not only is he treating you badly, - trose
        • I was not suggesting you live in the situation at all. I just was thinking - about the kids "leaving" their home-sm
        • You're right! You and your kids will do better w/o him - in a happier home where you all are loved. nm
        • Does he treat you badly in front of your children or is it - Wannie
          • occasionally blatantly in front of them - usually (sm) - Butter and clutter
            • Out of the mouths of babes - Listen to your son
            • The only reason I asked if it was in front of your children or - Wannie
  • Are you unhappy enough to leave? Your life is too short... - mtmetoo
  • I'd tell him to take half the equity and get out - sm - XXX
  • Why stay if there's no love there?!! You deserve a much nicer life partner, girl. - Get out and go for it! nm He's a creep!!
  • Take your share of the equity and go (sm) - nm
    • Take your share and go?? - Why doesnt he take his - share and go? - What about the kids.
      • He has agreed the kids should go with me (sm) - Butter and clutter
        • He doesnt want the kids cause they would mess up his - single lifestyle. nm
      • I tried hard for years - never good enough (sm) - Butter and clutter
        • you don't need therapy-you JUST SUMMED IT UP!! - better Mom than his was not, probably!!..sm
  • Now he just came in and asked me to start over (sm) - Butter and clutter
    • ok he sounds like he has a sense of humor..LOL. - better Mom than his was not, probably!!..sm
      • But we go through this routinely (sm) - Butter and clutter
    • It would just be more of the same. - nm
    • This sounds just like me and my husband! - Hayseed
      • Hayseed I usually love your posts but (sm) - Butter and clutter
        • Hey, no need to apologize to me! - Hayseed
          • You're not like him - different motivations (sm) - Butter and clutter
            • hubby - ortho mt
  • I think... - you know the answer...sm

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