It's bizarre regardless of her reasoning. Wonder what else he's hiding?
Posted By: Agreed on 2008-01-22
In Reply to: I find it odd that you don't know how much schooling your husband has had. - nm
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sorry I believe God has the authority to judge any and every situation. My reasoning on dogs is the temperament test. That is a test that doesn't lie. This test is conducted by experts on specific breeds of dogs. I hate to admit it, but I use to be skeptical on owning pitbulls also. I use to think why take the chance on owning a dog that could turn on us and kill us??? Yup that was me 6 yrs ago. Till one day I took a chance on getting a little pitbull pup & he would be the one to open my eyes to so much. So upon researching them, owning them for years, rescuing one and being married to a K9 dog handler/trainer trust me I know what I am talking about.
I disagree with some of your reasoning
While admittedly I hate getting on the scale, MRI dosing is not the only reason for getting weighed. Sometimes, hard though it may be to believe, we don't notice things going on with our body as much as we should. Point in fact, I had a recent visit where it was discovered I had lost an inordinate amount of weight in a fairly short time. While in this case it was nothing, there are a lot of other bad things that could cause it, but while I knew I had lost some weight, I wasn't aware of the extent. Rapid weight gain can also be an indicator of a lot of problems and, speaking for myself, I know that the heavier I am, the less I notice even 20 more pounds, but the scale will notice. Also, if you're on any medication at all, weight can be a factor. Do you honestly believe that 200 mg of Motrin is going to be as effective for a 200 pound person as a 110 pound one?
Yeah, we all hate the scale. I haven't owned one for about 10 years (I probably ended up throwing that one out a window) and feel no need to rush out and buy one. But much like I let them check my pulse, temperature, respirations, and blood pressure no matter what I'm in for, it would occur to me to refuse the dreaded weight check as one more piece of my medical info.
I agree she needs to get out but disagree with your reasoning - sm
Restraining orders are pretty much toothless and have been proven to really infuriate men who are already peeved about the woman leaving; they can trigger a devastating event.
My advice is to call the local domestic violence shelter in your Yellow Pages; immediately contact an attorney; and leave the house with both children.
My best friend was murdered by her husband after telling him she was leaving.
My prayers are with you, original poster.
The reasoning is that those who are not in control of their own finances (sm)
i.e., bad credit, are more statistically more likely to be tempted to steal.
Sure it's bizarre
But I would think people in a stable relationship would not cheat in the situation of dancing together just as they would not cheat in the situation of placing catheters. (LOL--I'm weird!) It's all done for the paycheck at the end. If someone leaves their spouse or boy/girlfriend because they are dancing together and cannot look past the job function, then it is the problem with the person, not a problem with the dancing itself.
My weird comparison is merely that it's the people with the problem, not the dancing situation (or other intimate situations).
hiding from the MIL
My daughter was reading a book to her grandma. When everyone had left grandma asked me if she had memorized the book. I told her no, she is just a sharp kid. She pressed me further, very concerned. I finally told her the teacher had said she go to special school but we were not interested.
The truth is the teacher said she could skip a grade, but I did not tell MIL that or that teacher has set up a whole advanced program for her instead.
"That is good," she said, Don't want her getting a big head."
Ugh.....
I'm sure they WILL - it happens to less-bizarre
Every time that woman opens her mouth, she just digs herself in deeper, in terms of the possibility that the state will find her an unfit mother. Those babies are going to need a LOT of care, something Octo doesn't even seem to be able to do for herself, let alone anyone else.
that stands as good reasoning, huh? "because of other people, that's why
good grief
But he "FOUND" it in private property! Ludicrous reasoning. nm
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his head IS very very bizarre
I also noticed this. I have never seen anything like it in my life! It almost looks like part of his skull is gone. I kept staring yet didn't want to look, if you know what I mean!
They are hiding behind a computer
They know if they said it to the OPs face, it would be punched. 
I see it on all message boards that I go to. Sometimes the OP is in the wrong but I do think there is a nicer, gentler way to put it.
NOTE: I am not referring to the one below, I have not read it. I am just talking about MB posters in general.
I know, I am wondering if I should just keep hiding (sm)
Hiding from the divorce and hiding the debt. We have seperate accts and if I run out of money I have to ask him for money and tell him what i need. The bills he assigned to me pretty much take up all of my money. I am afraid it is going to make him angry and he will try to punish me out of spite, by taking the kids more than he would have, etc. He has never been around for them but now says he wants 50% custody so he can "get to know the kids". He has lived with them their entire lives, why doesn't he already know them?
hiding money sm
My mom & dad hid money, dad died and mom had a brain problem and died suddenly. It was very unfair, was power of attorney and had a lot of problems. They were not rich, knew they had money hidden but not where, took so much time looking in basement, etc., trying so hard to be sure the next person buying the house wasn't going to inherit it as we "paid" for it by suffering their frugality. About to throw out a very old decrepit table and sister found almost 2 thousand dollars hidden in an unsuspecting drawer. God only knows if they had money buried; if they did, someone else is enjoying it. We grew up in almost poverty and they died with barely enough to bury them. Now you know the new people are certainly not going to say, "look what I found, it's yours." Selfish. Also, money does disintegrate, is eaten by worms, etc., and there could be a fire when all is destroyed. In the yard, unless there are written instructions, forget it!!! If you do tell the kids, then you would be expected to help and should, if they fall upon hard times. What to do? Dunno! Some wrap it up and put it in the freezer, then it's thrown out as unidentified freezer object. We are in a throwaway society, everything will get sheet canned when I die, that I know!
bizarre what mine got up to
I left him because he told me he was "gay" (among other reasons). He proceeded to throw himself into a gay lifestyle for a few years, then changed his mind and married a Korean lady who spoke little English and didn't drive. They had a child. Then he changed his mind again and decided he needed a sex change. She divorced him and he lost his visitation rights. Today he's living with a man who doesn't know he wasn't born a woman. Its disgusting he felt it was OK to mess up so many lives with deceptions on his path of self-discovery.
Not hiding my head, in all my years have seen
just too much and do not care to watch any more train crashes. If you lived where I do with the amount of murders shown each and every day on the news, after awhile you just want to watch others news. I live in a place over 5 million people and the onslaught is ridiculous so just watching the daily news is enough for me. There will be no change whether you watch every bit of this or you don’t. I think a tragedy that the news channels gave this killer the space he so never deserved. Therein the shame lies. We have gotten as a nation to want to watch tragedies like this. I choose not to.
Mothman is bizarre! Kept me awake a while! (sm)
Had never heard of it until the post and then after the responses yesterday I looked it up and read about it. Also read about the cornstalk curse that is supposed to have been placed over the area by an Indian chief who was wrongly killed - Kept me awake a little while once I was in my dark room!! LOL!
Whaaat? That's pretty bizarre. And why would
It's a perfectly civil conversation about different beliefs. Unless you think that a thread that doesn't follow strict Christian philosophy would automatically be deleted from MT Stars?
Then you must have done a lot of hiding out these past 8 years!
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Me too! SNL and Bizarre on HBO. Now THAT was naughty! Good times.. nm
Husband did a bizarre thing - may be offensive so
Everyone was getting ready for school and work this morning, hustle and bustle about the house....I open the door to our room and my husband is right there, door unlocked, using my underwear as a catcher's mitt! He had gotten my clean underwear out of the drawer. We have been having some marital problems and have talked of divorce. I am kind of freaked out. Does this mean he misses me? Does it mean he likes getting away with something right under my nose? Why would he do it at that time of the morning with everyone walking around and the door unlocked? Am I just being naive?
I do miss the hiding and hunting for eggs
since my children are a little old for that. We hid eggs in neighbors yards (the ones will small children) when we knew they weren't home. We put candy and coins in all the eggs. One of the houses has a big sign on their front door that says "Thanks Easter Bunny". We were only able to watch one little boy look for eggs, but it was so worth it. Happy Easter to all!
Bizarre that you call your own son "her brother." Why are YOU estranged from your son?
If you have TOLD your own children that they "will never know you" then how can you expect them to know you?
You're actually considering disconnecting the phone because your own daughter made an incorrect assumption about you? You're going to estrange yourself from her, too?
You have so much more to deal with than you realize.
Having a tantrum while hiding behind a nickname is not a sign of maturity. nm
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Having a tantrum while hiding behind a nickname doesn't change the truth. nm
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