If I want to do it and nobody else can -- I just do it

Divorced, two step-daughters live in Montana. If I want to do something and no one else does -- I just do it because if I waited around I wouldn't do anything.  But when I want I take my nephews, niece or their kids.  Took my 18 year old great nephew down to San Franciso for a week and we had a ball.  I get along with all the kids.  Thinking of going to Boston next and take one or two of them with me there.  I have friends that I can travel with but if I can't find anyone I feel comfortable enough going by myself.   I can keep my own scheduled, eat when I want, see what I wand and don't have to worry if someone else is having fun.  So being alone has never stopped me.  The first time is the hardest and it does get easier.   Does not bother me to go out alone to eat or have a drink.   I am pretty good company and I never fight with myself and I am always right. 

• Got a question for empty nesters. Do you ever find that you want to do things and it is so hard to - PAMT
  • Empty Nester - TexMT
  • We recently moved 200 miles away and - mm
  • I am a single young person - anon
  • I would join a church or church group. SM - Orida
  • If I want to do it and nobody else can -- I just do it - Patti
    • Love your answer - Susan
      • Sounds good to me. I am going to get in that car and go or go with a travel group. Life is too - PAMT
        • See message -- going it alone - Patti
          • Your last sentence sorta breaks my heart - Terri
            • I kind of sort of can identify with what you said..sm - DumDum
              • I tried and tried and tried - Terri
                • I can surely relate! Families can be so --sm - DumDum
  • Empty nester and - Susan

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