I would think

Posted By: Rory on 2008-01-30
In Reply to: My ex-husband had an affair - scarred MT

no matter who the woman was, I would be much more devastated by my husband's betrayal. The friend betrayal would hurt too, but not nearly the same.

I used to work with a woman who caught her husband with her sister. You have to wonder what these people are thinking?!

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I don't know, this post down below has me thinking. What are your thoughts, woman to woman. sm - Mom and Wife
- Equally upset at either, but for different reasons. nm - CL
- Neither - Anon
  - I agree whole-heartedly. At that point...sm - Been there...
  - Well, that is exactly what Jennifer Anniston and Brad Pitt said sm - Mom and Wife
    - Just another note - Anon
    - so agree - jlynn
  - Great answer... - blondie
- The gender wouldn't be an issue with me, because - cheating is cheating. Period. -nm
- More upset if with a man. Lie #1 is the affair, lie #2 is that he's gay and didn't tell me bef - R
- More upset with male, although I see your SM - seppi
- I have experienced both - Thinking
- women beat themselves up - it NEVER - sm - mdlfcrs
  - My ex-husband had an affair - scarred MT
    - I would think - Rory
    - So sorry. You really were deceived. Yes, she was more - to blame. Sorry.
    - I am so, so sorry that this happened to you. I really am. sm - Mom and Wife
      - It broke up both our marriages. - and affected many people

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