I would not accuse him, but I would definately look into it.

• What would you do? - sm
  • I would not dismiss this. - Grain of truth
  • I do not believe a guy sent this - Katie
  • I doubt a guy would send an anonymous letter- sm -
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    • more on above - as I said in my case - sm -
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                • Still wondering? - larry
      • If I knew there was a history of cheating on former wives, - Kendra
  • I agree with those who say don't be so - sm
  • If you have kids you have to be careful sm - anonamiss
  • It really sounds suspicious for revenge, and (sm) - Me
  • I wouldn't accuse him, but I would show him the - letter.
  • I would not accuse him, but I would definately look into it. - Karen
  • I would investigate it further... - MT
  • been there with the ex - shelley
  • I would trust my husband and throw it away... - Kendra
    • having said that, I would tell my husband about the letter... - Kendra
  • I'd have to check into it - been there too
  • Did he see the note? - OldMT
  • Unless I lived in the tiniest town, I would get - professional help
  • If you're sure it isn't true, ignore it - Old part-timer
  • I would investigate. There may be some - Been there, divorced that
    • maybe it's anonymous because the person knows you would say Not True. - nm
      • I would look into it if it were me. - OldMT
        • Sorry, corrected post from above. - OldMT
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I haven't talked to the principal yet as I had to leave early that morning to have some teeth pulled. But I think I will on Monday. I hate to falsely accuse but I'll suggest they compare handwriting before they talk to him. If it doesn't match at all then maybe they don't need to talk to him.  Like I said, if I don't say anything and he did do it....well, future scenarios could be horrible. It could also possibly save his own life if he gets help now before he really does hurt someone. I know that the racial slurs don't normally mean anything, and I don't usually take them to heart,  but it's just too much of a coincidence that it happens the same time as the note with the same racial slurs that he used on the kids as well as getting punched by a black kid just a few days prior.

My son did go to school the next day and of course everything was okay. I just get so nervous because of everything you hear these days. No one is safe anywhere.

Thanks for all your input. I really do appreciate it. I'll keep you posted if they ever do find out who did it.

WOULD snoop!  She is so nosey, it drives me insane!  She also talks about EVERYBODY.  They have a big family and she is always talking about people and such, but everyone overlooks her.  When my husband and I first got married, years ago, we had just moved back into town and we stayed with her for a short time while looking for a house.  My MIL would actually OPEN my mail and my husband's mail and always say she thought it was hers!  A lot of my mail had my maiden name on it, because we hadn't been married long, but she STILL acted like it was a total mistake to open and READ my mail.  I would be furious! 

She also starts fights between my husband and one of his brothers.  She likes the attention of it, and they don't have the best relationship anyways, so she STARTS an argument between them by using the "he said/she said" thing and then she whines continuously saying......."ohhhhh I hope before I die my two sons will be brothers again".  This has happened like at least FIVE times in the past 5 years!  The last time she went to whining at me about it, I told her they are both grown men, let them handle their own differences and issues and we should ALL just stay out of it.  She doesn't like that answer though, she likes the drama of it all.

Okay, I think I went wayyyyyyy beyond the question here, LOL, I didn't realize I needed to rant for a minute.

WOULD snoop!  She is so nosey, it drives me insane!  She also talks about EVERYBODY.  They have a big family and she is always talking about people and such, but everyone overlooks her.  When my husband and I first got married, years ago, we had just moved back into town and we stayed with her for a short time while looking for a house.  My MIL would actually OPEN my mail and my husband's mail and always say she thought it was hers!  A lot of my mail had my maiden name on it, because we hadn't been married long, but she STILL acted like it was a total mistake to open and READ my mail.  I would be furious! 

She also starts fights between my husband and one of his brothers.  She likes the attention of it, and they don't have the best relationship anyways, so she STARTS an argument between them by using the "he said/she said" thing and then she whines continuously saying......."ohhhhh I hope before I die my two sons will be brothers again".  This has happened like at least FIVE times in the past 5 years!  The last time she went to whining at me about it, I told her they are both grown men, let them handle their own differences and issues and we should ALL just stay out of it.  She doesn't like that answer though, she likes the drama of it all.

Okay, I think I went wayyyyyyy beyond the question here, LOL, I didn't realize I needed to rant for a minute.

WOULD snoop!  She is so nosey, it drives me insane!  She also talks about EVERYBODY.  They have a big family and she is always talking about people and such, but everyone overlooks her.  When my husband and I first got married, years ago, we had just moved back into town and we stayed with her for a short time while looking for a house.  My MIL would actually OPEN my mail and my husband's mail and always say she thought it was hers!  A lot of my mail had my maiden name on it, because we hadn't been married long, but she STILL acted like it was a total mistake to open and READ my mail.  I would be furious! 

She also starts fights between my husband and one of his brothers.  She likes the attention of it, and they don't have the best relationship anyways, so she STARTS an argument between them by using the "he said/she said" thing and then she whines continuously saying......."ohhhhh I hope before I die my two sons will be brothers again".  This has happened like at least FIVE times in the past 5 years!  The last time she went to whining at me about it, I told her they are both grown men, let them handle their own differences and issues and we should ALL just stay out of it.  She doesn't like that answer though, she likes the drama of it all.

Okay, I think I went wayyyyyyy beyond the question here, LOL, I didn't realize I needed to rant for a minute.