I would investigate it further...

Posted By: MT on 2009-01-26
In Reply to: What would you do? - sm

You need to find out the truth because this will bother you for the rest of your life. Also, please protect yourself from STDs. Unless your husband is a real jerk to people, I don't see any reason why someone would send such a note for no reason. I would either hire an investigator or do it yourself (spyware on the PC, monitor cell phone records, etc.). And whatever you do, do not throw the letter away. If you discover this accusation is true, you may be able to use that letter as evidence in the future.

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What would you do? - sm
- I would not dismiss this. - Grain of truth
- I do not believe a guy sent this - Katie
- I doubt a guy would send an anonymous letter- sm -
  - I sorta laughed at the place where you said your husband - Reading your post
  - more on above - as I said in my case - sm -
    - He could have asked you to buy them because (sm) - just me
      - No, he wanted them because he - sm -
        Have you not heard the saying, once a cheat - Wondering
        you guys are missing the point, -sm -
        Are You Kidding Me? - Wake Up
        Still wondering? - larry
    - If I knew there was a history of cheating on former wives, - Kendra
- I agree with those who say don't be so - sm
- If you have kids you have to be careful sm - anonamiss
- It really sounds suspicious for revenge, and (sm) - Me
- I wouldn't accuse him, but I would show him the - letter.
- I would not accuse him, but I would definately look into it. - Karen
- I would investigate it further... - MT
- been there with the ex - shelley
- I would trust my husband and throw it away... - Kendra
  - having said that, I would tell my husband about the letter... - Kendra
- I'd have to check into it - been there too
- Did he see the note? - OldMT
- Unless I lived in the tiniest town, I would get - professional help
- If you're sure it isn't true, ignore it - Old part-timer
- I would investigate. There may be some - Been there, divorced that
  - maybe it's anonymous because the person knows you would say Not True. - nm
    - I would look into it if it were me. - OldMT
      - Sorry, corrected post from above. - OldMT
        Don't be so quick to ignore it - lrlrlady

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I would investigate. There may be some
little truth in the statement, otherwise, that's a really nasty and crude joke!