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My 9 y/o son tells me that a boy on his bus (we'll call him Joe) who my son doesn't like him because of picking on kids i think, had been suspended from school for pulling a knife on someone.  This boy is in the 5th grade.  I asked the bus driver about this and she said yes he did do this but "Joe" wasn't the instigator it was the other boy who said to "Joe" that he was going to kill him and I don't know what else this other boy said.  So this other boy was suspended for the rest of the school year.  Now, should I be concerned that the school didn't let us know anything about this incident, or am I overreacting?  I don't know the whole story, but this "Joe" rides the bus with my kids and supposedly pulls a knife on someone.  That worries me.  So I just don't know if I should say something or not. I'm glad the school suspended the boy for the rest of the school year.  It's just kind of scary, this is elementary we are talking about and it's K through 6th grade.  The bus drive said they are supposed to be "hush hush" about it.  Obviously it got out somehow because my son told me about it. 

Thanks for listening and any input you might have.

the bussing issue and the younger kids being exposed to the older kids.  My kids have learned so much.  I'm not saying they don't watch TV, but I monitor what they're watching.  My kids watch primarily Disney and Nick.  My younger ones certainly didn't know about sex until they changed the bussing issue.

While childcare is an issue for a lot of other parents, fortunately for me I work from home.  I actually don't mind sleeping in an extra hour or 2.  My concern in this regard is the fact that they're tacking on all these extra days at the end of the year when it's hot and we don't have central air for these kids.  I know that we didn't have A/C when I was a kid, but the weather has changed a lot since then.  We actually had to dismiss early last year because of the heat. 

I really think that this superintendent has too much power and is making changes that the parents are not in agreement with.  I know there is a school board election, but I don't know much more, like when the elections are, etc.  What's the timeline for school board members, i.e. how long do they sit and when are they elected?  Do they have to be re-elected or do they get to stay on until they decide to leave?  Is there a parent advocate to help mediate some of these situations?  I don't usually get too involved in the small-town politics, but I think it might be time to at least go to the meetings and see what's going on.  I don't want to wait until it's too late and then sit back and complain because I didn't do anything. 

Thanks for responding!

because he is drunk 99% of the time I get to see him. It's a Merry go round we can't seem to get off. Every day ends for me with a drunk SOB picking a fight and every morning starts for him with me being PO'd at him for whatever he did the night before. The rest of my life is actually great. I have great kids, a career I love, lots of family. There's potential for wonderful life for me and the kids if I could just remove the daily alcoholic part.

Trust me, I've supported DH for 15 years. Took him to marriage counselors, begged, pleaded, tried to be understanding. This last year we risked our financial well-being to support his dream. His end of the deal was he'd have something to work for and wouldn't drink anymore. He's still drinking, and we're still waiting to see the outcome of his dream. Luckily, he and his partner just refinanced under the new corporation and we are able to pay back all the personal funds he borrowed. I've tried it all. Give him some time to go out with the guys, do activities he wants, take the vacations he wants. Doesn't matter how much I support him. DH is a taker, and he will continue to take until I literally have no more to give financially, emotionally, or physically.

It's high time I lead by example and teach my pre-teen daughters that women deserve respect, honesty, common courtesy, and contributions from their partner that contribute to their well being and well being of their family. My biggest fear is my daughter's are just going to repeat the cycle because it is all they have ever known. I am totally at peace with the fact that I have done all I can to support my husband and help him overcome his addiction. Bottom line, can't help those that don't want to help themselves, and I will not sacrifice my children to keep trying.

Is she wearing a helmet that fits?  There are daily accidents with children on ATVs.  I'm sure she's probably not going fast, but an accident can happen even at 5 mph.  If she should happen to flip the ATV, which can happen on an incline at any speed, your daughter could be killed.  I don't mean to sound so grim, but it's something to be aware of.

We have an ATV.  My 3 boys do ride with their dad and do wear helmets, but it's something I wish I'd never allowed to start.  Every time they get on, I feel like I have to hold my breath until they're off.

Fell back asleep, didn't think much about it. A little bit lethargic today. Took a nap after a long day (mom of 3 kids - 33 year old) and when I was in bed it happened again (severe vertigo) whenever I rolled my head from side to side.

Woke up nauseated.  Didn't throw up.  I don't feel weak anywhere. Just dizzy.  Looked it up. Sounds like BPPV or Meniere's disease? I have no idea! I have to be healthy for my boys and myself! I have NEVER had ear problems in my life. I've never even had an ear infection before. This is so strange and concerning to me. I can't see doc until some time this week. Does anyone have vertigo, sudden onset, who can share a little with me? Help.

which equals about 5 weeks or 6 weeks behind in length.  And you said you were told something like 2 or 3 weeks behind.  I wouldn't worry.  You may just be having a small baby who may be a short person or maybe your dates are a little off.  There are so many variables in pregnancy.

Both my kids measured below the standard for femur length on ultrasound (about 2 weeks behind), but I'm 5 feet 2 inches and my ex-husband is 5 feet 4 inches, so my kids weren't going to be big.  My son always measured in the 5th percentile and was always of the smallest kid in his class.  Now at age 14, he's taller than his dad and is probably going to reach about 5 feet 9 inches!  My daughter is still in kindergarten and she is the smallest in her class and measures in the 5th percentile.  I've had doctors say things like "we need to watch his/her growth closely" blah, blah, blah.  I'm little, my ex is little, and consequently, my kids were little. 

Best advice, DON'T WORRY!  When you're pregnant there's a tendency to worry about every little thing!  I would suggest talking to the genetics doctor and going from there.  Do your own research and have questions ready when you go.

Good Luck!