I think it's all in the delivery --
Posted By: holiday spirit on 2008-10-22
In Reply to: would it be rude? - regarding christmas
start with your parents first (i'm assuming their still with you). They're usually the most understanding of these situations. Explain that you're simply strapped for cash, but would love to have everyone come together at your place for dinner. Suggest to your parents (if they're on board with you) that the others want to exchange gifts, they can meet at someone else's place later for that. I don't see anything wrong with it as long as everyone knows up front that you're not exchanging gifts.
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On our takeout Chinese restaurant menu - We delivery! lol
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You must live in a high pizza delivery paying
area that they get $7-8/hr. Most make minimum, if that, but keep their tips. Oh, add in gas to save you the trip of lugging it home yourself, then yes $2 is insulting.
Most places guarantee delivery by the 24th if ordered by the 22nd. EAsy.
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