I should also add
Posted By: a stepmom on 2008-10-10
In Reply to: I'm sorry you are going through this. - a stepmom
that we deal with a difficult bio-mom too. From the age of about 3-6 SS told us many terrible things that she said about me and my relationship with his father. During the last 2 years he has started calling me mom on occasion (his own doing) but coincidentally he goes back to her house and comes back not saying it for a few months so I can only assume its her influence. He's getting old enough to know when to keep his mouth shut and not tell either side certain things but I'm sure he slips up on that one. Anyway, just wanted to say that will never get better. She will continue that way forever. I've had many tears over it but feel like it is something that I can deal with and 1 day SS will see that I was the better person for not putting him in those situations. TO me it is almost a testament to how good of a person she thinks I am that she needs to protect her turf and try so hard to turn him against me. Don't know if you could feel the same about his ex or not.
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