I know where you are at and I have been there, too sm
Posted By: BTDT on 2007-12-16
In Reply to: thank you all for the advice and caring.....sm - Help me please...
I agree with another poster that said if he doesn't "own" what he did, there is no chance in working things out. I went through this and they can promise you until their face turns blue that it will never happen again, but if they don't "own" it, it will happen again. Your husband needs to do some serious soul searching and figure out why he behaved in such a manner. When he is ready to accept full responsibility for his actions and his very inappropriate behavior, then you will have a chance at working things out. I do believe things can be worked out...remember, part of your vows were "in good times and in bad" "for better, for worse." Sometimes you have to split up for a time, but that does not mean there is no hope for revival. Hang in there. Best of luck to you.
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