I know someone, who knows someone....

who can make someone disappear.  What does "DH" stand for?  Please don't tell me it means "Dear Husband."  DinkHole maybe...

Sounds like he's a momma's boy who needs a smakin'.  I have no practical advice because I have one of those myself and no way in heck would I have spawned his children.  I love my boil dearly, but some "men" aren't cut out to be daddy's.  It's a lot of work and an equal responsibility.  It sounds like you have one of those families that another poster was talking about...the kind that think that just because you work at home, it means that you must have a ton of free time to watch TV and eat bon bons....they don't realize that it is WORK. 

Total drag.  I can totally see a person in your situation pulling a Thelma & Louise and just splitting town, but then again, I'm not a parent so I'm just talking out of my patootie.  Just tryin' to lighten things up is all, cause that's all I can do for you. 

No chance of taking him to marriage/parent counseling is there?

• i need some emotional support - Exhausted.
  • I feel your pain - typingforpennies
  • I always ask myself........ - Patti
    • yes . . . - anon
  • Dont blast me people, but if you do I can take it. Exhausted, please do not have any - more children with this man, if you cant take care
  • There is a fine line hear..... - Is this a cry for help?????
    • I said pestering, not pest. - Exhausted.
      • No need to explain yourself... - PAMT~MDM
    • I don't get this from her note, her DH was supposed -sm -
      • Kinda off topic here, but I hate it when a husband is suggested - by others to "babysit" his own kids. That ju
  • What would Dr. Phil say? - missy
  • Have you been on Dr. Phil? I swear I saw this on his show. - First thing U need is a back bone- and I mean that
  • virtual hugs to you "exhausted" one...sm (long) - flybye
    • Excellent response! I hope she listens. nm - deb
    • Mine's a shorter version but very similar..... - sm
    • WOW . . - anon
    • This is an excellent post. - ER MT
    • Wow. You SO hit the nail on the head with this one--sm - nn
  • i'd tell him it's marriage/family counseling - or the HIGHWAY...........good luck!!!...nm
  • I have a suggestion. - Quit the second job.
    • I know someone, who knows someone.... - Hayseed
      • I love your posts Hayseed! Your answers are great! - Dizz
        • I just tries to keeps it light in this crazy world is all... - Hayseed
    • I have an even better suggestion - Minnie
      • There she goes again...geez. NM - TM
        • She's got a point though! - TYPER MOM
          • It's not the fact that she maybe has a point - TM
            • Both of my children were out of high school when I chose this - Wannie
              • Thank you for that! :o) NM - TM
            • You said about yourself what I have said before and yet - Minnie
              • And another thing.... - TM
              • OMG! Um..... - TM
          • See posts on here describing how kids better with their family but.... - Minnie
  • Emotional support - Dizzi
    • Been to counselling - Exhausted.
      • Having seen this whole thing go down up close and personal = - been there too
      • The fact you did not file for divorce after your husband sent the - sm
      • It seems highly unlikely to me sm - april
      • been to counseling, didn't work, does not..sm - if you lose your sanity....sm
      • Do you have any family or friends you can stay with? I do not - Kokopoo
      • more advice - you'll be no good to those kids if - if you lose your sanity....sm
        • options - anon
          • been there--sm - nn
          • only IF the passive aggressive wants help......... - nope - only if they want to change.....nm
      • I see myself in you. - kd
      • Of course they choose the most vulnerable--sm - nn

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