I hate to sound mean and uncaring.....
Posted By: We must have the same dad on 2008-12-24
In Reply to: I think my dad needs to be committed..sm - sm
but my father used to do the exact thing only he worked. This was back in the 60's and he abused my mother. She hung in there for the sake of my brother and I plus it was a no-no back in those days to divorce. The last straw was when my brother was due back from camp but wanted to stay a few more days and mom said okay. Dad went beserk because he made him a welcome back dinner. He told my mom to get the hell out and take me with her (I was 6). We stayed with my grandmother and he called constantly crying for her to come back. She went back to him even though my brother and I wanted to stay with my grandmother. Well, he ended up beating her again and that was it. She left for good.
He used to call my mom saying he had a gun and was going to shoot himself which was an ongoing threat. He left the house and we moved back in. He broke in one day and locked himself in the bedroom - threatening to shoot all of us. She took us back to my grandmother and she called the cops. They were of no help in those days. She then started to get "tough" with him. If he threated to shoot himself, she would tell him to go ahead. The threats became less and less and then stopped. She stopped taking his calls and would drop us off at the courthouse for visitation so he would not be able to start anything.
Since I was so young, he wrote my brother stating that since my mother divorced him, he was divorcing us kids and he kept his word. I saw him once in 40 years even though she encouraged him to see us.
Without him, our household was so calm and pleasant and I had a great childhood after the age of 6.
Sometimes you just have to let go whether it is your father or not.
I hope things work out for you!
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