I don't believe its you
Posted By: mt on 2008-02-24
In Reply to: hubby probs - angelmt
My heart went out to you when you talked about wanting to starve yourself, etc. Please don't ever feel that way. If you do want to lose weight I'd do it on a guided program like weight watchers. They have lots of support there. I'm not sure of you and your hubby's age, but maybe he is deficient in a vitamin or mineral that would increase his libido. If you have a physician I would talk to them as I'm not trained (low libido was just a suggestion as I went through the same thing a few years ago except it was me not interested in sex and found I needed some supplements (Zinc, etc.). It wasn't that I wasn't attracted to my husband, I just had absolutely no sex drive). Hubby talked to me and went out and bought a bunch of different DVDs (sex ones that is). I would ask your husband what would he be interested in doing to get the "excitement" back in your life. Maybe a good sex therapist might help (please don't take offense to that - I have heard they have helped a lot of people. I know things seem down for you right now, but if you can talk to a professional person and find out the underlying cause I'm sure things will work out and I'm sure you will find out it is not you.
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