I do not know why this came out like this

Posted By: Get a clue was not what I meant on 2007-12-18
In Reply to: Your begging for sex is not a good idea! - Get a clue!

but I surely was not trying to put her down and as far as gaydar- it happened to me years and years ago and I was married for oh 2-3 years and had not a clue. It can happen, you do not necessarily have to know. My post was to say not to have sex with him (know she had begged in the past, doubt she is doing that now).

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Please help me! - drowning in sorrow
- So OP, how are you today?? Are you ok? nm - NCMT
- I wish you strength. - MTHubie
- wow...what a shocker and a merry christmas to you huh? - mt-MQ
- Realized something else - drowning in sorrow
  - You are doing the right thing to calm down and get more info before talking (sm) - NCMT
- Thank you - drowning in sorrow
  - Did you date very long? - MslaMT
  - Your begging for sex is not a good idea! - Get a clue!
    - I do not know why this came out like this - Get a clue was not what I meant
      - Thank goodness! - MTPockets
      - Glad to know you didn't mean it like it sounded LOL (nm) - Me
    - You must have perfect gaydar then - most of us would not "knowingly" either -duh
    - "get a clue?" That was mean - Appalled!
    - For your information - drowning in sorrow
    - HOW DARE YOU! She said she DID before she knew this (sm) - Me
      - Talk about kicking someone when they're down.. - MTPockets
  - I'm so sorry...I know it must be so hard (sm) - NCMT
- Shock - MTness
- You have to confront him. Your health and well being are most important. - SM
- If you love him, talk to him - radgirl
- Maybe he is just curious, but has - type-it
- First mine said he was gay - truth was worse - he was transgendered
- People don't turn gay, they either are or they aren't - sm -
- Somebody has to say it so I will - Do NOT have sex with him until you have - talled (if even then) and you know he has
  - I agree with this poster. For your own sake. - Heartbroken for you.
- This will be hard, but there are things - pxmt
  - I just want to say what a kind-hearted post this was!! (sm) - NCMT
- I had a boyfriend that was gay. - MslaMT
- Time for a long, uninterrupted heart to heart. Sorry to hear - about this. No signs prior at all??? nm :(

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