I appreciate your honesty.
Posted By: sm on 2008-09-16
In Reply to: If you knew what the emails said, you may think differently... - anonamissytoo
I can understand where you are coming from without all the details.
My father had a son from another marriage who basically only came around every couple years when I was a child...when he needed money or had another child whose mother would call my father looking for him. Last count he had 5, I believe, and he disappeared for good. That was about 20 years ago, never heard from him since but my father kept in touch with 1 of the children and their mother.
Biological relation or not, adopted or not, no one should be taken advantage of and that's sort of what it sounds like you feel you may be getting into.
Certainly from the sounds of it you have offered to meet face-to-face etc. and learn more about each other but the child does not seem to want that. That's too bad. Sounds like what should be a good experience turned into a bad one.
Thanks for answering my question. Good luck to you in the future.
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LOL! I admire your honesty!
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I admire your honesty about the situation.
It is plain that this person has filled a gaping hole in your life. But you need to do the right thing, which is sometimes the hardest thing, and let him go. The lives that you could potentially destroy are not worth it, and at the end of it all you just might hate yourself. Don't be selfish. Let him go.
I am asking in all honesty to not blame the stores
My family is in the grocery business, and like jss said, everything is going up. I don't believe the stores are trying to make a profit off of the bad economy, but groceries have to be trucked in (paying the drivers, the gas, the workers that package the items, etc.). Outrageous prices are eveywhere. My father refused to order red peppers due to the cost and the fact that he knew his customers would not pay for them. It works both ways.
In all honesty, I have never heard that word. But I'm a flatlander. nm
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This is a cool thread... love the honesty and find everyone very intriguing. nm
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