I am not judging, if I were then I

• What would you do if your grown child told you - Mother talking here
  • I am that way with my mother, I am - dm
    • I am not judging, if I were then I - Mother talking here
  • PLEASE READ - Another Opinion
  • I would find out exactly what she meant. sm - NC MT
    • You gotta understand, I have been seriously - Mother talking here
      • I think you both need to grow up! sm - NC MT
        • Spoiled, yes, I see nothing wrong with that - Mother talking here
          • but that is not you daughters fault sm - NC MT
            • I am not understanding of what you are saying - Mother talking here
              • you keep saying how you underwent sm - NC-MT
                • You took what I said out of context - Mother talking here
      • If you love your daughter and she loves - .-
        • Not really an estrangement, yet - Mother talking here
          • Reading your comment I am answering, - .-
  • d) none of the above sm - flybye
  • I was the daughter, mom was the eggshells - Been there, done that
    • Ok, I have read your answer - Mother talking here
      • Response - Been There, Done That
        • You know what, I really, really - Mother talking here
      • I also had an "walking on eggshells" mother - An Iowan
        • Make that A instead of AN in the title (nm) - An Iowan
          • Why? 'An' is right and 'A' is wrong....nm - .-
            • The apology was referencing the title, not the author (nm) - Grammarian
              • Yes, sure you are correct, I didn't catch the 'An walking'..nm - .-
                • Mine was a typo of sorts - An Iowan
              • Thank you! That's what I meant. nm - An Iowan

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If you're one of the sickos who defend their right to abuse children because it's their religion, you deserve to be judged along with them. 

don't know right from wrong.  They are animals.  The point that I continue to make is that IT DOES NOT MATTER what this elderly man did.  The pets in the home attacked and killed him.  No PET should ever be capable by temperament of attacking and killing a human being. 

For the sake of your argument, if the man reached out with a cane and rapped the dog on the head, in your mind would that  justify the reactions of the dog to kill the person who struck him?  How many other dog breeds would run behind the couch or under a table when confronted with abusive treatment?  How many other dog breeds would growl? Bark?  Nip?  Bite?  No one is saying that an animal should not defend itself, but a dog whose defense is to kill a human is a dog that should NOT be kept as a pet.  A dog is an animal and does not think like a human, as you have pointed out, and that is precisely the thing that makes them unpredictable and makes the pitbull breed attacked unprovoked.  It is all in what the dog perceives as a threat, which a human cannot always predict, or more importantly, cannot always prevent. 

my mind and you could tell if I was judging others. This place is teeming with unhappy, whining, complaining women (just look at some of the posts all over this site) and that is not a judgement, it is fact. As far as being in the same situation as others one day, if you read any of my posts you would see that I have been there, done that and changed my ways. Should something happen, we have learned to save money, have enough put away to last a year and not have to touch any retirement, etc. That took a lot of determination and hard work on our part and we are proud of it.

I am get a good chuckle out of some women who accuse other women of "living off their husbands" and "where would you be without his money". I can make my own money, but my husband doesn't tell me that i need to work and doesn't tell me how much I need to make. He is the provider in this family and has never once asked me to work harder, earn more or get a different job. Remember when men used to do that and our mother's stayed home and raised the family and didn't work? Are you jealous of your girl friends or family members that don't have to work or who live debt free or do you hold that judgement for those you do not know?

Enough of this for now. I'm sure someone will have something to bash me about later on...go ahead, it just shows how very immature some women can be.