Huh?
Posted By: hiya on 2008-02-25
In Reply to: SIL foreign booty call. - Texas SIL
All I gotta say about this is "h-e-l-l to the no!" This can end in a tragedy - actually the tragedy is already in place to a degree with your brother and kids. Your brother has got to get it together and leave this woman. It is easy for us women to say this because 9 times out of 10 the woman keeps the kids, but he has some pretty good evidence to support him if he wants to fight for the kids - I know this is probably what he does not want to hear right now, but, my goodness, this is outrageous. For better, for worse, til death do us part and all that good stuff, but this is beyond what I think even God would have us put up with. She must take his forgiveness for weakness. I know my ex did. Your brother must decide what his pain tolerance is and what he is willing to put the kids through, what example this woman is setting for the kids, etc. I could go on and on - sorry for the rant, but this really struck a nerve with me. I had to put up with someone who was so wacko, and I stayed because I loved him, my marriage, and my child but enough is enough - glad I left. Peace be with you and your brother and I hope she returns safely and then he gives her the boot :)
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