Huh?
Posted By: QArbouncin on 2007-07-06
In Reply to: Older lady here, some insight maybe - Joan
"If you truly loved him, I do not think his actions would be that repulsive to you." Huh? She plainly says, "Yet he comes in and at night and wants to mas*****te, grabbing at me and saying really repulsive things to me at the same time. When I am sitting and trying to work he comes and does rude things as well." This is the problem with women sometimes, we somehow twist abuse into thinking it's 'our duty,' especially if we are more faith-based than others. If a person feels and perceives themselves as being abused in any way, have been to therapy, what is the point in staying miserable? We change OURSELVES and our dealings with others, take control of OUR environment, then and only then do things change. Starting by changing others never works.
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