How very sad for you nm

• I am so sad today, can't even work. I received an email sm - sad mom
  • If this were dead beat dad instead of dead beat mom, would - there be the samy sympathy offered? I think not. n
    • Lady, you seriously, seriously have to get a life. nm - OMG
  • Scratch up at least half of what you owe - sm -
  • You need to get it back into court sm - definitely
    • Yes. There is a reason. I am a little behind on child support. sm - sad mom
      • Posters are correct, child support diff from visitation - They COULD garnish your salary though...sm
        • They SHOULD garnish wages. There is no - excuse for delinquent child support payments.
          • they have joint custody w/dad being primary... - oh puhleeze, sometimes there are....sm
            • Extenuating circumstances? - SM
            • If there are then go back to court. This is a dead beat mom, - no different than dead beat dad. nm
              • I have joint custody w/ dad being primary - I pay no child support
                • No dead beat if no CS agreed on but not paying court - ordered CS does equal dead beat, male or female.
                • Not referring to a no-support agreement. If there - is a CS order, it should be paid - NO excuses.
      • Child support is a separate issue from visitation. nm - clhmt
      • My X never paid a dime - he still had his "rights." (sm) - Laws may have changed
      • If you want to see your son, sm - then
      • See, what did I tell ya??? - "Mean poster." nm
        • Don't you watch Judge Judy? Being behind in child support sm - I love Judge Judy
          • I DO watch Judge Judy, which is why I knew there was - more to this than just amean Ex. nm
          • If you already have visitation rights. sm - only
        • Lady, you have got to get a life! Seriously! You probably waited - OMG
  • There must be something you can do legally, sole provider or not. - I've been there
  • Hugs to you... - gotlatte
  • sad mom - nn
  • In a few years you will probably be glad you didn’t get - Yvette
    • That is a totally ridiculous post. This woman wants to see her son regardless. nm - trose
      • Just from experience and just the truth - Yvette
        • Are you in midwest? I might know you, and I understand. - nm
          • Nope, not in the midwest - Yvette
        • How old is your child/children and when did you decide he wasn't worth the effort? nm - trose
          • Grown and - Yvette
            • How very sad for you nm - trose
              • reminds me of a former poster here named Joyce - her posts look EXACTLY like these....nm
                • Glad to know not the only 1 who feels like this. - Yvette
  • Please ignore the meanies - (sm)
  • How are you going to explain to son in a few years why - you didn't make an effort for him? nm
    • What are you talking about? Effort? Just because he doesn't - sad mom
      • Just tired of people having every excuse why nothing is their - fault, wanting sympathy but not doing what needs t
        • Well, don't take it out on a someone when you have sm - My 2 cents
        • You shouldn't be so judgmental and nasty - pip
  • Sounds like a lot of "poor me"excuses. If this were me, - NOTHING would stop me for fighting for DS. nm
    • I had to actually kidnap mine back. - Different situation, but
  • Can you talk to your son's father about this? - anon
  • Take this to a lawyer. Fight for him. This cannot be legal. - nm
    • Unfortunately, when we divorced I was completely sm - sad mom
      • can you wait a few days - mtstudent
      • If you wanted DS visitation bad enough, you WOULD get - lawyer. You seem more worried about you than DS. n
  • i pray for u and ur son - smh
  • I will pray for you also. Hugs to you. nm - trose
    • I'm so sorry. You will be in our prayers. - mtstudent

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