First of all I would definitely get mad, mad, mad.
Posted By: == on 2009-05-08
In Reply to: Those cheating men - SallySue
I would definitely NOT blame it on me, because I am a good wife, really.
I would also definitely NOT get even. Then I would stoop down to the same level as my husband and give all my cards away. This would weaken my position and strengthen his position.
My reaaction would also depend upon with WHOM he cheated on me, how long the affair was going on, how he treats me as wife, if I still love him, how the sex is between us, if he is a good provider, if he is a good father, etc....
I would definitely consider a divorce, but I would carefully consider the pro and cons, so that I will come out as the winner in this dilemma that my husand caused and not I.
And I surely would shout at him:
How could you, you bastard!'
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