Feminine wipes........
Posted By: KAT on 2007-02-26
In Reply to: Okay everyone, I have a question. - RR
Stock up on feminine wipes or sprays and if he goes for them - well, I think you might have a problem. My husband enjoys a house that smells good, but he never comments on my fragrance (which I can wear very few) and I don't think he would burn a candle if his life depended on it. this is a strange one - I have a BIL who is a metrosexual - will be going to his home in California in the near future and will report back if he is burning candles and using feminine fragranced bath bubbles.
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Everybody buys the bibs, bath lotions, and Onesies (which I personally hated, could not tolerate snapping and unsnapping all the time for diaper changes).
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Feminine intuition is rarely wrong. And when you are close to the truth, your man
will try to convince you that you're crazy or stupid. They get defensive and angry and try to turn the tables and make this "your" problem.
Here's what you know: 1) It takes more time than normal to get his hair cut. 2) Your hair dresser not only has confided in you about her personal affairs, she has done so with your man (let me add, the only reason a woman does this is to elicit sympathy and a big strong shoulder to cry on - it's the oldest trick int he book). 3) He gave her a $500 tip without consulting you first. He never mentioned it immediately after the fact, and still did not tell you how much the "tip" was after the thank you note. That is completely deceitful!!! 4) When confronted with the facts that he gave away $500 without ever mentioning it to you, he has the balls to get angry and try to make you feel like YOUR anger is unjustified.
This are HUGE warning signals that should not be ignored. Here is what I would do. I would go through the checkbook with a fine tooth comb. See where he is spending money and what he is spending money on. I would also check credit card transactions as well. If he has a cell phone, get a list of his numbers dialed and received calls. Then figure out who the numbers belong to if you see numbers you don't recognize. You can *67 and dial anonymously. If it is a business, they'll always pick up. If it's an individual who screens, you still get their answering machine. You can also look the numbers up in a reverse phone directory.
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I've been where you are right now and I feel for ya. It sucks to find out you've been lied to by someone you loved and trusted. Good luck!
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