EverydayMT......
Posted By: EvaEv on 2008-05-27
In Reply to: Once again you are rude - Everyday MT
Done pointed specifically out that she always shielded her children from the fights they had. You just hear what you want to hear. So, they are not really in a 'trauma', y e t ; it can be fixed.
She was not giving good advice to Done, she was just telling Done h e r life story, about her homosexual husband, her mother-in-law, what has nothing to do with Done's case. Her case is completely different.
sm says in her last comment that Done has been to a marriage counselor, who suggested that she leaves her husband with the advice to look for another 'good' counselor, who counsels her to 'stay'.
Bottom line: You said it yourself.....
Bad counselor tells Done to leave,
'good' counselor tells Done to 'stay'.
So, if you have any logic left, I am here giving the 'good' advice and you are all giving the 'bad' advice.
But reading out of Done's comments, I sense that Done has already made up her mind to leave and she only ask this forum to get her decision approved. She does not really ask for advice, she wants her decision confirmed.
What do the children say to this all? What do they want? On whose side are they?
I hope that Done stays, they should try to communicate with each other again, t a l k to each other.
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If you say..'I think most kids are tougher than parents believe...' I disagree. This is only an excuse. This is often n o t the case. Assuming that children are 'flexible', they 'adapt quickly', they 'forget', they move on with their lives', etc...... are just excuses of parents who do not want to sacrifice for their children.
Being a parent is the toughest job there is in this world and the most precious. Everybody can be replaced, but never a parent.
A divorce is and stays a trauma and a scar in children's hearts and souls.
Last not least, at least he is a good provider, many husbands are not.
I was not rude and offensive, I just gave my opinion.
Then, I could be very rude to you, EverydayMT, but I
prefer not. Your comments in the last paragraph are just ridiculous.
I will not rebut on this, because it is a privilege to be on this medical transcription-forum.
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