Done
Posted By: Done on 2008-05-27
In Reply to: To see msg.... - EvaEv
Thank you for all the comments. My husband was apologetic but I am having an awfully hard time getting over what was said in his letter. Name calling hurts even as an adult. He has been trying, it is I that has a wall up and shut him out but the letter was the most awful thing anyone has ever done to me. I cannot even explain how hurtful it was. I tried counseling but all 3 times, the first bit if advice was to leave.
I should explain that my kids do not see us fight, as there is no more fight in us. When we have had discussions in the past, it was done privately. I would never submit my kids to any of this, as they are the reason I live and reason I stay. They are the reason I struggle with this on a daily basis. It would be extremely easy to leave if they were not here. They are the very reason for my struggle.
Is it right to leave a husband just because you are no longer in love when there are children involved? This is my struggle every day. There are days I think I can try and days I think about that stupid letter. I will continue with my struggle and thank you for your words. I was simply looking for those who could give me their experiences in staying versus leaving. My heart tells me to stay as he is not physically abusive, he is a great provider, and life would be very difficult on my own but it is hard, especially when you are feeling very unloved. God bless you all for the help you've given.
Perhaps he will find a young hottie to replace me, then I can take half of all we have with a smile on my face (totally kidding but needed a laugh here).
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