Blondie and newbie MT
Posted By: doggielover on 2008-02-26
In Reply to: I'm sorry to hear that, blondie. .sm - sm
newbie MT, that is a beautiful poem, AND, thank you for your last paragraph...it has helped me more than you know! Sometimes one starts to think of days gone by, and perhaps of a situation where a grudge was formed comes to mind. Thankfully, all that is needed is a nudge to get them out of that grudge-rut. Thank you for the nudge!
Blondie, my heart goes out to you. While I have never been in your situation, I can almost feel the pain via your words. I hope and pray that your father "comes to his senses" and realizes that he is hurting his family something terrible!
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anxious newbie.
Try Spheris.com. They hire newbies. Or did.
About posting - I'm sort of a newbie sm
When you talk about your family I've come to understand that DH is husband, DS is son, DD is daughter - what does that first D stand for? I haven't been able to pick up on it from the context. Thanx!
What?? A Blondie???? Would U say something to
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I'm sorry to hear that, blondie. .sm
My stepdad is doing the same thing to my mother. They have been married 25 years. She is still in denial. I worry for her because she can retire in 2 years and I worry that she will have nothing to retire on due to him spending such large amounts of money. I have been trying for 2 years to get her to at least consult with a lawyer to find out where she would be financially because he has secret bank accounts and money stashed in different places. I hope your mom has more of a backbone than my mom and not just sit back and take it. Good luck to you and your mom.
Blondie, have read your posts before sm..
You sound like a very good person, very caring. I was in the same situation once with a neighbor's dog. He would go to Canada hunting and just leave his dog tied to a dog house in mid-winter in New England and I would take her into my home, feed her, keep her warm and all. This neighbor today I can say with full confidence was borderline-retarded without a doubt. I am so glad I did this. I even at one time went to the dog pound and claimed this dog who had gotten loose and said it was my own. I could not let this poor dog suffer because of its owner. All I can say is do what is in your heart, it may cost you a few dollars more but think of it is abandoned children and you are there for them. Take a good look at this guy and truly ask yourself is he is capable of the love and caring you have in your heart. I know times are tough, but perhaps you are the one who is meant to save these poor animals. Sounds like this guy is either not the sharpest tool in the shed or something else wrong with him. Does he have enough money for beer or etc., and not his dogs? Then he doesn't deserve them! Think hard about the dogs and what would happen to them if it were not for you. You are a very nice person. I hope you find an answer. As for your husband, only you can answer that question. I think he should at least stick up for you and address his dumb friend as to what his responsibility is in the situation. Good luck, Blondie, you are a sweetheart to put up with all this, and I am sure the dogs are in a better place with you. Do you have an SPCA or someone who could help with the food? Perhaps online you can find a way to make your own food suitable for dogs at a reasonable price. May God be with you. Perhaps you are meant to care for dogs in some way that would be beneficial to you in other ways. God bless you for caring. 
for blondie and forever pitbull owner
I thought you might like to read the below story.
http://today.msnbc.msn.com/id/27704926?GT1=43001
No, Blondie, give the dogs back or call the Humane Society.....s/m
who can take care of 10 (t e n ) dogs? This is CRAZY!
Your husband is a coward. He should protect you. God knows what a 'deal' he made with this 'friend'.
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