BUT

I cannot say that my husband treats me like a floormat or in any way abuses me.  I come and go as I please and do whatever I want.  He does dishes and actually, he does ALL our laundry. He is not a bad guy and he is an AWESOME father with the exception of really not teaching her some things. 

But, he has no ambition to do ANYTHING.  He is oblivious to life and its responsiblities.  THIS MAN IS 17 YEARS OLDER THAN ME!!!  As stated in my other post, he won't even deal with the cars, their repairs, etc.  I have to tell him to do anything that is done. 

It has gotten to the point to where I have no respect for him anymore.  I don't even want to be touched, hugged, etc., by him.  I am flat out miserable. 

• Ladies, you all are missing so much - What a wonderful life!
  • Agree 100%... sm - Anon today...
  • I hate to say this, but you must be older. I am in my late 30s. We have 3 sm - OP from down below
    • no one changes their personality.. - me
    • Yes, older and wiser, much so - What a wonderful life!
    • Actually I am new to this discussion and I admire - sm
      • thanks for this - nuQA
      • WOW - mt35
        • The answer to your question is - What a wonderful life!
          • BUT - mt35
            • No kids, nothing - What a wonderful life!
              • My daughter does matter - mt35
                • So, accept second best in life - What a wonderful life!
                  • We do owe our children a decent childhood (sm) - Butter and Clutter...still thinking
                    • nice! - nuQA
                    • This is a free country, be a doormat for the rest of your life - What a wonderful life!
                      • Too critical, overbearing and someone I would not have been happy around. - nuQA
                        • Sorry, do not understand your post - What a wonderful life!
                      • not me - nuQA
                      • I really am happy for you that your life is good (sm) - Butter and clutter
              • typo- - Older than most
            • what was his mother like? - nuQA
              • GREAT QUESTION - mt35
                • my advise (for whatever its worth) - nuQA
                  • Oh MY - mt35

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