As one grammie to another (sm)

Posted By: oldie but goodie on 2007-04-09
In Reply to: Holiday custodial woes - Grammie

Your best bet is to do absolutely nothing. Leave it to the parents to settle between themselves (or not) and stay completely out of it. I know it's hard.

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Holiday custodial woes - Grammie
- You asked how others handle it. They sm - get it
- As one grammie to another (sm) - oldie but goodie
- The father has as much rights as the mother to make decisions....sm - Georgia Gal
  - I agree with this. Also the mother cannot control what - the father does when he has the child -sm
- it it's gonna cause a problem to say something, - then go another route - see message
- My daughter going through a similar situation - sm
- be happy he is in her life and loves her - - let it be - no message
- Joy said she wasn't doing much, so he made up for it - it's okay, & make her brush teeth more often -n
- I got an Easter basket up to 16 or so, loved it - sm -
  - About painting the enamel on the back teeth, SM - GaMT
- Reply - Grammie
  - Unfortunately, this is what happens here - sm
- You're being kinda mean - Lisa
- Easter - Trish
  - But he mom chose to dismiss it, and the dad did his best. - exactly
- I am really glad the got her an Easter basket. sm - wow
- This is SO not your business. sm - grammie, grammie
- She wasn't going to do Easter for the girls, so they did. sm - Not a competition
- I recently had a talk with my ex - about the spoiling - sm
  - You sound like a very wise person and I a glad to that - sm
  - That is not spoiling. It is expected. - Easter basket???
    - gifts are Never to be expected--what happened - to living a humble life?
  - very wise advice about how to go about - discussing with an ex.
    - This is not a grammie, problem. It is grammie butting in problem. - uh-uh
- Competition - Lilly
- Competing for a child's love is going to come around - and kick the parents in the butt.
  - It is a Easter basket. She deserves one. - It is not competing
    - With all due respect ... - Grammie
      - lol - read your reply after posting exactly the same - thing above - agree 100% with you - sm
      - If they kids are safe there - just let it go. - mtstudent

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