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Anna Nichole's mother did not just put dirt or whatever on the grave, she

Posted By: Janie on 2007-03-06
In Reply to: I agree ER MT - trose

actually WALKED over the top of the grave. I was shocked because where I live so disrespectful, had never ever seen this done before. I am southern and her mother also lives in the south. Just not done in my neck of the woods. Even after burial, I always try to go around marked graves, never treading on them if I can at all keep from doing so.


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Anna Nichole is still being taken advantage of, even in
death with her supposedly beloved, yeh right, Howard Stern who now I hear has sold the rights for her funeral to Entertainment Tonight for 3+ million. Why am I not shocked by this? Hearing complaints from other news services unable to get any kind of story at all, all involved - her mother, her former boyfriend Larry and her baby daddy (supposedly) Howard others think are being paid $$$ not to talk but exclusively to ET. Heard Fox news just say they do not pay for stories, well I guess some are not that honorable.
It isn't uncommon for the loved ones to throw some dirt on the grave. sm
I didn't see it though so am not sure if this is the type of thing you are talking about or not.  In my husband's family the men actually stay and cover the grave using shovels, but it is a different culture than what we are used to in the US, he and his father covered his grandfather's grave and my husband covered our son's grave.    Not sure about 'walking' on the grave though... that seems disrespectful... but again, I didn't see so don't know.
Judge just said Anna Nichole baby daughter has remains and will be left up
to what the babys lawyer wants. Stern does not win!!
Her mother is crazy...I could never walk on someone's grave...

even visiting loved ones in the cemetary you know not to walk over other peoples graves...I was taught that when I was younger---LOL...totally disrespectful...Her mother is just angry that she is buried in the Bahamas and not in Texas....


Somebody explain this Anna Nicole's mother doing what I have just seen
At the funeral her mother spread dirt/concrete whatever over her daughter's grave, looked like she was pulling it from the bed of a truck but then she walked on the grave?? What in the world was that all about? Anyone have any other information on that - I missed the whole story. Thanks.
One of Vergie's (Anna Nicole's mother) attorneys passed out. He said he is a diabetic. nm
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Poems or Sayings on Grave Stones

I am very sorry to hear of your loss.  I lost my mother 16 years ago when I was only 19, and it was the hardest thing I have ever been through in life.  This web site has many varieties:


http://www.exterior-accents.com


Good luck with finding what you are looking for and always try to focus on remembering the good times you had with your mother.


MT in MS


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advice on what I can tell my brother about this? They are such a precious family. Brother visibly upset over this because he has been disciplining her for behavioral problems, etc., when all along it's been here thyroid. They want to do radiation right away to help shrink it? Or possibly remove thyroid altogether. She is so pretty. I spent the summer with them and yes, she did act diff. from other 13 year olds, looked very developed for her age (to me), and her eyes weren't bulging to me. I'm so glad they caught it today. It sounded like she was in the early stages of shock with fever, shakiness, etc.


Anyone with experience in this? Thank you so much.


What dirt?

 


Joe Dirt
:)
Can you believe, old as dirt and never had
mac and cheese in my entire life. I am probably afraid it would become an addiction like other foods I love.
DIRT PIE
oreos and whip cream, you can't go wrong. just Google DIRT PIE. it was a kids dish, but a lot of people made it a little more grown up. I have had it all kinds of ways and all very good.
Older than dirt...
No, I just turned 64 in March. My ex said his Lasik did not last and my eyesight was in the 20/400 range, really bad so really glad when I got the Lasik as glasses and contacts just was not doing the job anymore. I know according to the patient cataracts grow at different growths so maybe that is the problem now, at least if that were the case insurance would pay for it and Lasik not.
Dirt concerns
Your daughter could get head lice from the girl coming to your house, from school, etc.  Let  her go to the party, and have her take a shower when she comes home!
I'm older than dirt

'Someone asked the other day, 'What was your favorite fast food when you were growing up?'


'We didn't have fast food when I was growing up,' I informed him. 'All the food was slow.' 'C'mon, seriously. Where did you eat?'


'It was a place called 'at home,'' I explained. ! 'Mom cooked every day and when Dad got home from work, we sat down together at the dining room table, and if I didn't like what she put on my plate I was allowed to sit there until I did like it.'

By this time, the kid was laughing so hard I was afraid he was going to suffer serious internal damage, so I didn't tell him the part about how I had to have permission to leave the table. But here are some other things I would have told him about my childhood if I figured his system could have handled it :


Some parents NEVER! owned their own house, wore Levis, set foot on a golf course, traveled out of the country or had a credit card. In their later years they had something called a revolving charge card. The card was good only at Sears Roebuck. Or maybe it was Sears & Roebuck. Either way, there is no Roebuck anymore. Maybe he died.

My parents never drove me to soccer practice. This was mostly because we never had heard of soccer. I had a bicycle that weighed probably 50 pounds, and only had one speed, (slow). We didn't have a television in our house until I was 5. It was, of course, black and white,
 


I was 13 before I tasted my first pizza, it was called 'pizza pie.' When I bit into it, I burned the roof of my mouth and the cheese slid off, swung down, plastered itself against my chin and burned that, too. It's still the best pizza I ever had.

 


We didn't have a car until I was 4. It was an old black Dodge.

I never had a telephone in my room. The only phone in the house was in the living room and it was on a party line. Before you could dial, you had to listen and make sure some people you didn't know weren't already using the line.



Pizzas were not delivered to our home. But milk was.

All newspapers were delivered by boys and all boys delivered newspapers my brother delivered a newspaper, six days a week. It cost 7 cents a paper, of which he got to keep 2 cents. He had to get up at

6AM

every morning. On Saturday, he had to collect the 42 cents from his customers. His favorite customers were the ones who gave him 50 cents and told him to keep the change. His least favorite customers were the ones who seemed to never be home on collection day.


Movie stars kissed with their mouths shut. At least, they did in the movies. Touching someone else's tongue with yours was called French kissing and they didn't do that in movies. I don't know what they did in French movies. French movies were dirty and we weren't allowed to see them


If you grew up in a generation before there was fast food, you may want to share some of these memories with your children or grandchildren. Just don't blame me if they bust a gut laughing.


Growing up isn't what it used to be, is it?


MEMORIES from a friend :


My Dad is cleaning out my grandmother's house (she died in December) and he brought me an old Royal Crown Cola bottle. In the bottle top was a stopper with a bunch of holes in it. I knew immediately what it was, but my daughter had no idea. She thought they had tried to make it a salt shaker or something. I knew it as the bottle that sat on the end of the ironing board to 'sprinkle' clothes with because we didn't have steam irons. Man, I am old.


How many do you remember?

Head lights dimmer switches on the floor.
Ignition switches on the dashboard.
Heaters mounted on the inside of the fire wall.

Real ice boxes.
Pant leg clips for bicycles without chain guards.

Soldering irons you heat on a gas burner.
Using hand signals for cars without turn signals.


Older Than Dirt Quiz :



Count all the ones that you remember not the ones you were told about


Ratings at the bottom.

1 Blackjack chewing gum
2. Wax Coke-shaped bottles with colored sugar water

3. Candy cigarettes
4. Soda pop machines that dispensed glass bottles
5. Coffee shops or diners with tableside juke boxes
6
. Home milk delivery in glass bottles with cardboard stoppers
7. Party lines
8. Newsreels before the movie

9. P.F. Flyers
10. Butch wax

11. TV test patterns that came on at night after the last show and were there until TV shows started again in the morning. (there were only 3 channels)
12. Peashooters
13. Howdy Doody
14. 45 RPM records

15. S&H greenstamps
16 Hi-fi's
17. Metal ice trays with lever
18. Mimeograph paper
19 Blue flashbulb
20. Packards
21. Roller skate keys
22. Cork popguns
23. Drive-ins
24. Studebakers
25. Wash tub wringers

If you remembered 0-5 = You're still young
If you remembered 6-10 = You are getting older
If you remembered 11-15 = Don't tell your age,
If you remembered 16-25 = You're older than dirt!


I might be older than dirt but those memories are thebest part of my life.
 


Older than dirt here, too......... sm

I can also remember: 

1.  Licking and sticking S&H Green Stamps into a saver book and taking them to the redemption center with my mother.  That's how I got my first luggage set. 

2.  Raleigh coupons that came in the cigarettes that Dad smoked.  These were also good for redemption for merchandise, but mom had to package them up in bundles of 100 with rubber bands, pack them in a box, wrap the box with a brown paper grocery sack cut to fit and tie it with string.  We then mailed it and waited the customary 6 - 8 weeks for our merchandise to arrive.  I believe she got a set of dishes with this once and who knows what else.  It, like the Green Stamps, was so common place in our home that we didn't really pay attention to what was purchased with them. 

3.  Going to the soda fountain at the drug store downtown and ordering a Coke float. 

4.  We lived on a farm and sometimes processed our own meat.  I can remember helping to package and label package after package of beef or pork. 

5.  Related to the above, I can remember my mother straining milk that our milk cow produced twice a day.  For each gallon of milk, about a third of it was pure yellow cream.  My dad would drink the cream off the top of the milk with supper at night.  That kid doctor in the original post probably would have had a stroke over that.  Surprisingly though, Dad never did and lived to be the ripe old age of 83.  Mother also made and sold fresh-churned butter and buttermilk.  That buttermilk made the BEST cornbread to go with the peas that Dad grew in the garden and Mom canned for us to eat through the winter.  Sometimes peas and cornbread WAS supper. 

6.  I can remember getting a special dress twice a year....once on Easter and once on Christmas.....and wearing it to church with my family.  Of course, these dresses were designed and crafted and sewn by my mother.  All of my clothes were, in fact, and I always got so many compliments on my clothes and from people with money at that! 

7.  I can remember going into town with Daddy on Saturday mornings and getting 25 cents worth of candy.  It was enough to last a whole week but it seldom did.  We didn't get candy or soft drinks every day and they were a special treat. 

8.  I didn't eat a "store bought" cookie until I was at least 13 years old. 

9.  I didn't have a "store bought" dress until I was at least 9 years old and only then because I was attending a wedding and mother did have time to make me a new dress (which she thought I had to have a new dress for any "occasion").  I think it cost $12 and my daddy had to work for about 6 hours to pay for that dress! 

10.  I can remember segregation and the first year our little school integrated. 

11.  I can remember watching the evening news and seeing the casualty lists from the Vietnam War being scrolled across the screen. 

12.  I can remember JFK's assasination and funeral and my mother crying as she watched the news coverage on our black and white TV while ironing.  She was using one of those bottles described in the original post. 

13.  I remember our class being taken to the auditorium and watching the first man walk on the moon. 

14.  I remember daily assemblies that included Scripture reading and prayer at school and these were lead by a teacher. 

15.  I didn't see a color TV until I was about 12 or 13 and that was at a friend's house.  I didn't know they even existed until then. 

16.  I remember the first attempt at movies on disks.  They were huge plastic things in huge plastic boxes and the picture quality was abysmal.  Of course, we thought it was great. 

17.  I remember Hi-FI stereos with automatic record changers that played 33s and 45s and what an improvement it was to be able to stack records and not have to change them after each one was finished.  At least I'm not quite old enough to remember using a Victrola! 

When I think about all the innovations and inventions I have seen in my lifetime, it amazes me.  There are microwaves, color tv, personal computers, cell phones, MP3 players, CDs, VCRs, DVDs, and the list goes on.  Boy, do I feel old now! 


Another older than dirt
How about when gas was 28 cents a gallon and you also got a free drinking glass with each gasoline fillup?!!  Them's the good ole days,..
borderline dirt, but
our phone number was Edgewood 56743. I think this puts me over the top.

Older than dirt
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You are right about that clouds of dust/dirt thing...
I have a bagless and that is exactly what I do not like about it.
Isn't it throwing the first hand of dirt onto the casket
Putting their body to rest, they loved ones toss the first handful of dirt? Maybe I am wrong.

Can't even imagine how Anna N. mother could walk on her daughter's freshly dug grave, never heard of such a thing.

There was a reason A.N. Smith was like she was and her mother may have been big part of it. That she had a multimillionaire daughter who didn't share the loot with her must probably made the woman insulted. Unevenly distributed wealth distorts close family relationships like nothing else can.
I do like it and I am also watching Dirt this season and Riches.
x
no but i also don't stay married to someone who treats me like dirt
...
Very dusty, we live on a private dirt /gravel road - sm
have a dirt/gravel driveway )very short). Dust just seems to seep through somehow. House was built in 1989. I hate to clean so that does not help, and lots of stuff/clutter here for it to accumulate on. Need to just empty the house and bring back in only a few things and sell the rest. Would make such a difference.
dog named Didi, cats names Snowball, Squirrel and Dirt
x
Anna
Been wondering that myself. Wonder what will happen to the baby girl?
Anna's DNA
They want Anna's DNA to make sure the baby they test is Anna's and they don't do a "baby switch" so that it won't look like L. Birkhead is the father.
anna
but her mother has had nothing to do with her for years so why she get her. She would have told Howard where she would have wanted to be buried over her mother. Bury her next to her son. Who would not want to be with their own child. Obviously she picked that site for her child to be buried there, bury her next to him. She bought the 4 plots for a reason.
Anna
I so agree with you. I believe she bought the 4 plots so at some point in time she could be buried next to her son. She hated her mother from what I have seen, so why should the mother have any say? Anna did not buy plots in Texas. I think she has a right to be put to rest beside her child.
anna
I totally agree. Who would think that we would have to bury our children before us. She did just buy these plots recently. It is not like she bought them 30 years ago.
Anna
Yes I know. I had my thoughts on that from day one. I guess maybe we will never know, but it doesn't look good.
anna
He did not brainwash her against her mom. She left her mom when she was a teenager. As far as the baby, I believe both and Anna did know that she wasn't his but that is what Anna chose. He did not kidnap and you can't even compare the two. That is what she wanted. She had the money and the means and could have got away from him if she wanted.
Thanks Anna
I am glad they like us and want to spend time here, just not every weekend.

I think part of it is that I am pregnant and hormonal. I am also used to having little to no family (especially in-laws) and its just a huge adjustment. Another part is that I don't want to be the "bad guy" but I guess sometimes I will have to if I don't want the mess. Husbands don't think of things like wives do. Its unfair of me to expect him to. Third, our son never spends substantial time over there unless we are with him. BUT, next time he is complaining he's bored maybe I'll tell him to call his uncle and see if he can come over. They can return the favor once in a while.
Anna is now dead
I just saw on the Comcast home page Anna is now dead?
Anna's Baby
Yes! Yes! Yes! The baby should be with the real father now.
anna nicole
But her poor baby is without a mom now.
DNA for Anna Nicole
I think (and I would perhaps agree if I were Larry) that he wants Anna's DNA sample just to make sure she did not fake her own death. Face it she had the money and with Howard on the baby's birth certificate . . . Not sure that she did fake her own death because I think she loved the spot light too much, but maybe that is the reason behind all this with the DNA from her.
Anna Nicole
Does anyone think her mom should get the right to take her back to Texas?  I know none of the players in this saga have much integrity but I think she should be buried next to her son in the Bahamas.  What a mess!
Anna Nicole
I think she should be buried next to her son.  I am not crazy about her mom, but I don't like Howard either.  It looks like everyone is looking to get something from her.  It's such a sad story...
7 wills on Anna's son and they go to
Howard Stern? Just heard this on the news a minute ago. Unbelievable. This is getting as thick as pea soup now. Something rotten in Denmark I sayeth.
Anna Nicole
I guess they found 11 different RX for pain killers and sedatives in Anna Nicole's room, all in the name of Howard Stern... Looks fishier and fishier...
Anna banana, thanks, that is very...
... gracious and generous, but I really have got it together and it's okay.  You are so right; I'm looking forward to it being a lot of fun with my good friends at work!  Thanks so much anyway--
Thank you Nature and Anna
It's nice that others can sympathize with me. I just don't know what it is. One time years and years ago I told him I was feeling depressed and wanted to talk with a counselor. Boy did we have a blow out. He told me I should be able to talk to him about anything and I told him I can't. I told him he judges me and no matter what I feel or think he comes back with "you need to look at things the way I do". He's done that ever since we got married. When I wanted children and he didn't I was supposed to look at things the way he did. When I wanted to see my family but he didn't want me to travel because flying was not safe I was suppose to look at things the way he does. Once I told him you need to look at this the way I do and he said to me "no, because your wrong". I've heard how wrong I am for 25 years now that I just keep my feelings and opinions to myself. Once I accidentally broke a leaf off of one of his plants and he yelled at me for about 2 or 3 hours and I felt like a child with him saying "do you have anything to say for yourself". Then I got the same lecture for 2 hours my dad would give me growing up, and him saying I need to look at this the way he does (me destroying his plants and how would I feel if he destroyed something of mine). Oh hears a good one that will give you a laugh.... we were talking about how bad the crime is where we live. I told him that they should allow citizens from each section of the town pull a neighborhood watch and drive around and have the authority to arrest individuals committing crimes. He looked at me like I was nuts and said 'how, how, how do you think they would do that, they don't have enough money, etc, etc. Then he told me the way to solve it would be to evacuate everyone out of the city, shut down all the roads and make the town a ghost town (mind you this is a town of over 50K people with businesses, restaurants, and stores throught). HA HA...I felt like saying...gee your right honey, I should look at things the way you do.

I guess the weirdest thing though is that I've never had dreams with my my DH in my dreams. Maybe in the beginning I had a dream or two, but that was maybe 20 years ago. Also I know a lot of people can see themselves older and with their spouses, but I have never ever pictured us old together. I don't know what it is but it's like when I look into my future I can see myself with gray hair and being with my family and friends, but he's just not there.

Sometimes I read people's messages and am a little envious and would like to be in a relationship like some are, but I cannot imagine what that would be like. But on the otherhand, I am a very independent person, very sure of myself, and the thought of being alone does not bother me at all. I always think that being alone does not necessarily mean being lonely.

Anyway...just wanted to say thanks for your kind words.
fox news is saying that anna is dead. i think it's very sad too. nm
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I have done a lot of research on Anna in the past and of course now sm
since her death. Sorry, but none of your claims are true, according to my facts. No offense against you.

First, the son of the billionaire died on June 20 of last year after a short battle with an infection. So there goes the claims that the billionaire's did that.

Second. Anna is not married to Howard K. Stern, her attorney. They had a committment ceremony which both the Bahamas and the US do not recognize. UNLESS she has a will, which at this point we do not know, Howard isn't entitled to anything, BUT Daniel Lynn, her daughter, is. So, to me, I don't think he did it. I do, however, think he contributed to Daniel's death since there are reports that he immediately dumped pills down the toilet in her hospital room in the Bahamas once he realized Daniel was dead. Many reports on this one. He gave Daniel Vicodin (which is also what Anna was claimed to be addicted to), and Daniel was also on 2 other antidepressants he began taking a few months prior.

As far as Larry Birkhead, the previous boyfriend, according to his website dated Feb. 8, Anna was his soul mate. He was waiting for her to come back to him and leave Howard so they could raise their baby together. I know, weird. He just sent her a box with a photo album and clothes for the baby with a picture of both of them when they were together. It is said that he has been unconsolable since hearing of her death. I feel for him. That is his child, if you ask me. It is. Doesn't even look like Howard, who is Jewish. I am part Jewish. Very dark skin, dark hair. The baby is very, very fair skinned, almost red hair, light eyes. Most definitely not Howard's in my honest opinion.

Third, or fourth point. And I promise, I'll be done after this. Anna died of pure heartbreak, drug overdose, and a combination of the flu/pneumonia. Sources say she has never been the same since Sep. 10 when her son died. They said, she just lost her spark. I can't imagine. I definitely believe, after coming to my own conclusions, that Anna died of unintentional suicide.

Okay, I'm off my soapbox now! LOL
Anna Nicole update.....3:30 pm EST

*no evidence of a crime occurring, no evidence of illegal drugs, only rx drugs, but we are not revealing whose names were on those bottles.  Investigation remains open until all tests return, but no evidence of a crime occurred.  No trauma found except a minor bruise from the bed a few days ago....no physical injuries found on her, autopsy is now complete.  No determination in cause of death but extensive review of medical records and tests ongoing.  They are still collecting information, lab data, etc., and will take somewhere between 3 and 5 weeks.*


Dr. Joshua Perper


Broward Medical Examiner


 


Anna Nicole - an old friend
I met Anna Nicole years ago in Texas when we knew her as Nicki before playboy and before her millionaire.

Nicki was smart and could read people very well. She came from a rough upbringing and if you ever heard her tell stories of her childhood you would understand the anger she showed on camera. Her mother was a very unpleasant person and was only interested in the almighty dollar not her daughter or grandson unless Nicki had money for her. I hope that Nicki's mom doesnt get the baby but I am not sure any of the other choices would be better. I just pray that the courts are smart enough to appoint the baby a good lawyer and guardian to oversee her money and make sure that it lasts until she is old enough to control it.

DNA
The baby for all intense purposes is a Bahamian citizen. I think she would qualify for dual citizenship but am not sure. But as long as she stays in the bahamas the US cannot make them do anything although the bahamian court could. I am sure that that is why Nicki gave birth there and why she had not brought the baby with her when she returned to the US. For some reason she did not want the baby to be tested probably because the photog isn't the father and didnt want to have to go through the whole who is my baby's daddy thing. you notice none of these other "fathers" came forward until there was a chance they would control her fortune.

On a final note Nicki may have been a lot of things in her life but ignorant was not one of them.
Yep and no one else is after poor Anna Nicole's
tee heee
father of anna nicole
This just in Larry is the father.
he''s in charge is what it means since Anna is dead.....

WHAT IS A GUARDIAN AD LITEM?

A guardian ad litem is an individual appointed by probate court before or during a proceeding.  Responsibilities may include prosecuting an action on behalf of an individual, providing information to a respondent, conducting an investigation, and making a report and recommendation to the court.


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